I just found out my step-mother is cheating on my dad. He doesn't know yet and I just don't know how to tell him. My dad means more to me than anyone else in the whole world. I have thought about telling her I know and tell her either she tells him or I will. Only 3 people know about the affair and the other people are thinking they are. I just don't know what to say. Any suggestions?How do I tell him about my step-mom cheating?
Here's the best rule of life you will ever learn:
IF IT DOESN'T INVOLVE YOU, STAY THE HELL OUT OF IT.
Have you ever heard the phrase, ';don't shoot (kill) the messenger';? Your father will be PISSED, and you'll be the first target - intentional or not.
Your father will eventually find out -- if he hasn't already -- and the middle of the fray is NOT someplace you will ever want to be.
When Dad does find out, just be supportive, no matter what is decided. That's the best thing you can do.How do I tell him about my step-mom cheating?
First of all are you have to be absolutely sure she is cheating on your dad. If you go to him with this news and it turns out not to be true you've lost your father's trust in you and given her reason to make your life miserable. I wish you would clarify what you meant when your wrote - only 3 people know about the affair and the other people are thinking they are. I would go to the step mother tell her what you know and that if she doesn't tell him that day you will tell him. Even that's risky if it turns out not to be true........you just look like a trouble maker. If what you suspect is true I think your dad would be disappointed in you if you didn't tell him. Just be sure you are right and if it could come from some adult it would be so much easier all the way around. How about your Mom and what about the 3 other people you referred to.
I am sorry to hear about this situation. Nobody likes to be told they are being cheated on. You need to consider whether or not you want your dad to be angry with him the whole time. Maybe it would be better if you just anonymously took some pictures of them together and emailed them to him from a generic account. The messenger almost always gets the brunt of the anger and blame, which is ridiculous but true. I wish you the best in working this out.
this is tricky, well first of all, you can not tell him personally for any reason at all, because this can and will backfire on you. What if they work it out? they will blame you somehow for it, because this is how people work and think
But he needs to know, so what you can do is set him up or her for him to find out, without him knowing that you are behind it
tell her she has 1 week to tell your dad or you will! and if he doesn't do it, then tell him!! imagine how we'll feel if he finds out that you knew and never told him...and if she doesn't tell him, tell him right in front of her! like at dinner or watching tv...just say, blank is having an affair, and i'm not the only one who knows!!
he's your father, she's your step-mother, he comes first!!
If you go to your dad, you better have proof to back it up or you are going to have a huge mess on your hands. She may deny it all and make you look like a little liar. I would get all my ducks in a row before mentioning anything to either one. If you tell her first she may have time to clean up behind herself.
This is a tough one.
I'd say you have two options.
#1 - Tell him in private when you know she won't be around for a few hours.
#2 - Learn where she goes to have her affair, and have your dad go there and catch her in the act somehow......
Good luck.
It's really not your problem, but then it kind of is.
I guess I would tell what you know. Then help him catch her by looking at phone records and following her when she leaves the house to go see the other guy. And if others know I would ask them to be with you when you tell him if you feel that you need back up. If not I would tell him who also knows after you tell him.
I think you should tell her first, like you said either she tells him or you do. This information should really come from her. But do it soon and make sure she fesses up quickly. You wouldn't want your dad to be strung along and then find out you knew all that time.
Tell him but make sure you have proof and not just hearsay. If you don't have proof, find it first. Tell her you know if you don't have proof and see if she comes clean. If she doesn't you need proof or he may not believe you, we tend to defend those we love.
make him see it for him self.. or he wont believe you .. i mean he in love with her.. and he mite think your the one doing wrong here.. but i would tell him as soon as i could .. even if she in the room with you when you do it ..
Best to stay out of this one. She will get caught and your dad will handle it how he sees fit. I know you are hurt over this, but it is not something you should get involved in.
He needs to know. You won't be the bad guy for telling. Tell him before everyone else knows! That will save him some embarrassment.
Tell him what you know when you're along with him.
tell ur father. no need to drag him along in the relationship, and he'll be hurt more if u knew this for a long time and didn't tell him earlier.
Tell him in private
wow I guess I would tell him in private he needs to know
Friday, August 20, 2010
Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse?
Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse. I think my wife is cheating but don't know how to catch her in the act, what are tell tale signs e.t.c.. I also don't have time to look. I just want a mailing list of some sort which I can just have delivered to my phone, PDA etc to read whilst on bus.Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse?
Does it really matter if your wife is cheating Dave?
Especially as your girlfriend is complaining as you take too long to climax during your sex sessions??
If it is ok for you to cheat why shouldn't she?
In answer to your question though, if someone is cheating and taking pains to prevent you finding out then unless you are told by a third party or your wife confesses it can go on for many many months without you finding out. Been there, had all the ';of course I am not cheating on you baby'; crap yet the s!*@@er was still two months pregnant when he ';fell out of love with me';..... Cheats are not worth knowing - if you catch her out, assuming now that the ';girlfriend'; was the wife and you are not also a cheat, then show her the red card.
Good luck Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse?
You will make yourself unhappy when you catch your wife cheating. You may even end up having stroke or hypertension. It is better for you to ignore her and go your way until she overdo her cheating e-mails.
Most likely she has signed up one of the love sites, browsed several pictures of men and exchanging love e-mails as you have no time for her.
The only way for you to catch her - Tell her that there are many love sites and that which one does she love best. If you are lucky, she will tell you. You will now sign up at that love site and browse several ladies profiles. You may be lucky to find that of your wife.
Dave there are ways even if she deletes emails to still read them after they are apparently gone..
email me and i'll teach you what to do
you can search on yahoo dating- i'm sure i saw an article about it there once before. Good luck
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Does it really matter if your wife is cheating Dave?
Especially as your girlfriend is complaining as you take too long to climax during your sex sessions??
If it is ok for you to cheat why shouldn't she?
In answer to your question though, if someone is cheating and taking pains to prevent you finding out then unless you are told by a third party or your wife confesses it can go on for many many months without you finding out. Been there, had all the ';of course I am not cheating on you baby'; crap yet the s!*@@er was still two months pregnant when he ';fell out of love with me';..... Cheats are not worth knowing - if you catch her out, assuming now that the ';girlfriend'; was the wife and you are not also a cheat, then show her the red card.
Good luck Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse?
You will make yourself unhappy when you catch your wife cheating. You may even end up having stroke or hypertension. It is better for you to ignore her and go your way until she overdo her cheating e-mails.
Most likely she has signed up one of the love sites, browsed several pictures of men and exchanging love e-mails as you have no time for her.
The only way for you to catch her - Tell her that there are many love sites and that which one does she love best. If you are lucky, she will tell you. You will now sign up at that love site and browse several ladies profiles. You may be lucky to find that of your wife.
Dave there are ways even if she deletes emails to still read them after they are apparently gone..
email me and i'll teach you what to do
you can search on yahoo dating- i'm sure i saw an article about it there once before. Good luck
adultfriendfinder.com and fing.com
How far does it have to go to be cheating?
I mean if someone is in a relationship and they start something with someone else?
No judgements on why I am asking this question please, I am not cheating on anyone.How far does it have to go to be cheating?
I think it is an individual thing... For me, thoughts about other people (like kissing them, or imagining any physical or emotional connections) is already cheating and would make me reconsider the relationship (as I think this is where it only begins and it doesn't stop with ';only thinking';). However, while for some kissing may be cheating, for others it will have no meaning. Some think even having sex with someone else is not cheating, as long as you don't love them. I do not understand these people... Call me a romantic fool if you wish, but I believe in spiritual fidelity as well as physical. Both as important.
I think at the beginning of the relationship you should talk about that with your partner, so you don't waste your time and don't end up shocked when they go around sleeping with others and saying ';but honey, it did not mean anything to me, you know I love you';.How far does it have to go to be cheating?
only you can answer that
I think a couple together should establish what is cheating and
what is not
what i think is cheating maybe not the same as what you think.
so you should talk to your other half to get things right
I think if you are connecting with another you should
be honest and tell the other person you are not available
so the other person has things straight
if there is someone in a relationship and they start to see someone else it's already cheating , why because when you are in a relationship it's 100% not 50% if you get what I mean.
Sex is the only line i draw for cheating, kissing people can be harmless, but you kinda have to have the intention of pounding flesh curtains.
if you are thinking about someone else or thinking of cheating than you are. Speak to your significant other.
If they start something with someone else its cheating.
suppose if the person is questioning themselves about being a cheater, then they know for themselves
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No judgements on why I am asking this question please, I am not cheating on anyone.How far does it have to go to be cheating?
I think it is an individual thing... For me, thoughts about other people (like kissing them, or imagining any physical or emotional connections) is already cheating and would make me reconsider the relationship (as I think this is where it only begins and it doesn't stop with ';only thinking';). However, while for some kissing may be cheating, for others it will have no meaning. Some think even having sex with someone else is not cheating, as long as you don't love them. I do not understand these people... Call me a romantic fool if you wish, but I believe in spiritual fidelity as well as physical. Both as important.
I think at the beginning of the relationship you should talk about that with your partner, so you don't waste your time and don't end up shocked when they go around sleeping with others and saying ';but honey, it did not mean anything to me, you know I love you';.How far does it have to go to be cheating?
only you can answer that
I think a couple together should establish what is cheating and
what is not
what i think is cheating maybe not the same as what you think.
so you should talk to your other half to get things right
I think if you are connecting with another you should
be honest and tell the other person you are not available
so the other person has things straight
if there is someone in a relationship and they start to see someone else it's already cheating , why because when you are in a relationship it's 100% not 50% if you get what I mean.
Sex is the only line i draw for cheating, kissing people can be harmless, but you kinda have to have the intention of pounding flesh curtains.
if you are thinking about someone else or thinking of cheating than you are. Speak to your significant other.
If they start something with someone else its cheating.
suppose if the person is questioning themselves about being a cheater, then they know for themselves
KISS.ORAL.SEX
if you peek at their cards
How can you tell if your boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating? What are the signs? Can you tell ur story if any?
I am in a 3 year serious relationship w/ my bf he travels a lot for work, I been noticing a change in his behavior I want to know if ';cheating'; was the reason why he is different... Thanks for your feedbackHow can you tell if your boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating? What are the signs? Can you tell ur story if any?
Well if he's traveling alot doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating on u. The relationship is old enough for you both to develop trust and mutual confidence in each other. Just trust him. Best of luck. Jaja Precious-Nigeria.
Well if he's traveling alot doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating on u. The relationship is old enough for you both to develop trust and mutual confidence in each other. Just trust him. Best of luck. Jaja Precious-Nigeria.
Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse?
Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse. I think my wife is cheating but don't know how to catch her in the act, what are tell tale signs e.t.c.. I also don't have time to look. I just want a mailing list of some sort which I can just have delivered to my phone, PDA etc to read whilst on bus.Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse?
Talk to her first. If you are still suspicious you could install spy software on the PC. They'll send you e-mails about her activity. That might cause it's own problems though. If she found out you don't trust her you could have serious issues.Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse?
CHEATING is the most inappropriate, childish, immature term for having an affair. I still can't understand why people use it. It doesn't even accurately categorize the behavior you're talking about and is far too subjective: ';Is it cheating if.... what about if.... and what if...???';
You suspect your wife is having an affair, right? She's your wife. Sit down together and calmly discuss it. If she is, it's a symptom of something else wrong in your marriage. Perhaps you don't pay enough attention to her or take advantage of her? Perhaps she needs something you're not giving her. (Typically the issue). If you suspicions are wrong, she'll tell you. Regardless, remain calm, LISTEN to her and work on solving the problem together. If it's a false alarm, she'll tell you or lie about it and likely, stop.
Please, DON'T call a private detective or use any of the other lame ideas posted here. Have some faith in your marriage and your spouse unless you are just looking for an easy out to get divorced. Your call from here. Will you handle it like an adult?
If you're this lazy about wanting to catch her cheating, you're probably equally remiss in your attentions to her... I wouldn't blame her for cheating.
Nothing like this has been invented. If you think your wife is cheating on you, you need to confront her, not stalk her.
I recommend hiring a private detective.
Just take a day off and follow her. That is the only proof you will need.
Why dont you just ask her?
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No seriously, just ask her.. She is your wife, right
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Talk to her first. If you are still suspicious you could install spy software on the PC. They'll send you e-mails about her activity. That might cause it's own problems though. If she found out you don't trust her you could have serious issues.Where can I sign up to information delivered by email about a cheating spouse?
CHEATING is the most inappropriate, childish, immature term for having an affair. I still can't understand why people use it. It doesn't even accurately categorize the behavior you're talking about and is far too subjective: ';Is it cheating if.... what about if.... and what if...???';
You suspect your wife is having an affair, right? She's your wife. Sit down together and calmly discuss it. If she is, it's a symptom of something else wrong in your marriage. Perhaps you don't pay enough attention to her or take advantage of her? Perhaps she needs something you're not giving her. (Typically the issue). If you suspicions are wrong, she'll tell you. Regardless, remain calm, LISTEN to her and work on solving the problem together. If it's a false alarm, she'll tell you or lie about it and likely, stop.
Please, DON'T call a private detective or use any of the other lame ideas posted here. Have some faith in your marriage and your spouse unless you are just looking for an easy out to get divorced. Your call from here. Will you handle it like an adult?
If you're this lazy about wanting to catch her cheating, you're probably equally remiss in your attentions to her... I wouldn't blame her for cheating.
Nothing like this has been invented. If you think your wife is cheating on you, you need to confront her, not stalk her.
I recommend hiring a private detective.
Just take a day off and follow her. That is the only proof you will need.
Why dont you just ask her?
www.stalkers.com
No seriously, just ask her.. She is your wife, right
www.cheaters.com
revenge.com
How do I confront a cheating husband. I know who he is cheating with?
He's denied cheating, but I know who it is. I'm not sure if I want to end the marriage yet, but I can't go on like this.How do I confront a cheating husband. I know who he is cheating with?
if you got busy yourself you could get off his back. once a cheater, always a cheater. if you can't take the heat get out of the the kitchen and find a chef that makes it your way.How do I confront a cheating husband. I know who he is cheating with?
If you want to salvage the marriage, but your husband is in denial, see if you can get physical proof like a video tape and confront him with it.
This might be one of the few instances where hiring a PI might be useful. Most of the time, a PI is biased toward selling you the worst truth possible, sometimes an outright lie, but if you KNOW the end result, then they'll just give you proof, which you can use to confront your husband and demand that he go to counseling.
If confronted with proof, and if he refuses to go to counseling, then you are better off ending things.
When a husband cheats on his wife he is no longer there and committed to you.
He takes everything that was and anything that could of been and sticks it all in the garbage can.
It stinks and nothing smells worse than someones nasty *** rot looking you straight in the face and lying.
Ask yourself this .... What would I do if he admitted the truth to me that I already know?
When someone is being dishonest to you they have no intent of making things better or right.
They keep important information from you not to protect you but to protect themselves.
Actually when someone is not giving you the truth it can become even more harmful to you than knowing it.
They end up having to live with it and always have to watch and remember what they do and say with you and things are never real on their comfort zone.
I would continue to confront him once again and make him accountable for his actions and behavior with marriage counseling if you are positively sure you do not want to end the marriage yet.
If he refuses to recommit and do what it takes with you to salvage the relationship then he gives you no other choice but to walk out of his life.
Before confronting him, at least make sure that he is in fact cheating. At least you are going to be more firm to whatever you are going to say to him. If he lie to you, he has no way of talking you out of it because you are 100% sure. And if you do confront him, you better think carefully of all the consequences that is going to take place after the confrontation. Because if nothing will happen after the confrontation, you will just give him the impression that he could walk out of it anytime coz nothing change. I would not suggest to separate with him neither stay with him because its your life. You should know better how much you value your relationship despite of the fact that you his cheating. Some spouse tries to give their partner another chance; some dont's. Its up to you. Good luck.
Do some detective work and find out for sure.... take a day off, rent a car he can't recognize, and follow him.
Then , hon, ya divorce the guy.
Understand that only 20% of marriages with betrayal survive even 2 years, and that is with both in counseling, and both hoping to save it... Tho women do get over the eeewwww factor easier than when the wife cheats, it is still tooooo big a wad to swallow.
Admit it's over, file, end it, never look back. There are sooooooooooo many nice men out there who, if you are a neat lady, would love to be your partner. But you can never find them with this albatross around your neck. And when the trust is gone, the rest of the marriage is over, and it becomes drama, drama, drama.
Marriages are Respect,Admirationn, Passion and Trust... the four biggies, and when the Trust is gone because the Passion is getting shared, the other two are in the toilet too, aren't they.... flush it hon, find out what's going on, and bail.... once a cheater, really, always one.
lol, seriously, why do women do this? You know he's cheating, you even know the person. But you don't want to end the marriage over it, you realize that if you don't end it, your telling him that it's ok to go out and cheat on you? Your just telling him to keep doing what he's doing.
Your type of thinking is the exact reason men feel they can get away with cheating over and over again. If women would just kick the cheaters to the curb, then maybe these dumb guys would eventually get the idea in their head that cheating isn't worth it.
Wow this is very hard situation to deal with. It's very hurtful, disrespectful, and I can only imagine the way you are feeling right now. My deepest apology is with you, because I know how hard this is. I have had plenty of experence dealing with this...SO PLEASE @least read my advice...IT WILL HELP...
# 1---Never let on that you are suspicious of your spouse until you have gathered numerous pieces of evidence. If you rush in and confront them after finding one telephone number or text message, you run the risk of alerting them to your suspicions. Not only will they now stay on their toes, but they will make sure you never, ever have access to your source of information again (ie: cellphone, credit card bill, wallet, etc.) The goal is to behave normally and give them the impression that things are “business as usual”. It is when cheaters are in their comfort zone that they slip up and make crucial mistakes.
# 2---Never let the cheater catch you snooping. It is always wise to have a reason for being where you found what you found prior to getting caught snooping. You need to have your story planned out and plausible in advance. Therefore, when you get caught digging through his briefcase, you can claim to be looking for the electric bill that was misplaced and might have gotten mixed up with his papers. Getting caught snooping without having a valid reason for being there is a red flag to the cheater. That’s why you should always have a $20 bill handy so that when you get caught snooping through her purse you can claim to be looking for smaller bills to pay the gardener, paper boy, kids coach, etc.
#3---Never allow the cheater to turn the tables on you and attack you before they provide a valid explanation for their behavior. Once confronted with facts, they will try to pull a Jedi Mind Trick on you by calling you crazy, stupid, psycho, insecure, childish, petty, ridiculous, looking for trouble or trying to start something. All of this will occur before responding to your question about who they were having drinks with after work last Friday. Don’t let them twist the issue. Acknowledge that you are whatever they say you are and then demand that they give you an answer to your question. In other words say, “Yeah, I’m stupid and insecure. Fine. So who is she and how long have you two been screwing around?” Once you allow them to turn the tables, attack you, and then leave the confrontation, you will likely never get to the bottom of the story because he/she will have gained additional time to get their story straight.
# 4---Never allow the cheater to make you explain their behavior. In other words, never get drawn in to the game where they expect you to explain why they would or are doing what you suspect them of doing. A typical cheater will say something like this, “Why would I resume a relationship with my ex when you know how important this family is to me?” or “Why would I have an affair with someone at work when I know your sister/cousin/ best friend/dog works there?” or even, “Why would I do that to you when you know how much I love you?” These are tricks to confuse the victim and make them rationalize why someone wouldn’t have an affair. For committed, unselfish, honest people these rationalizations make sense, but when a cheater is caught up in the throes of an affair, normal, rational thinking is replaced by whatever selfish behavior is necessary to accomplish their goals.
# 5---Never be fooled by confrontation tears. Although they may be sincere, be sure to distinguish between “I’m sorry” tears and “I’m sorry I got caught” tears. Even though tears may be a good starting point for reconciliation, be mindful of who the real victim is here. Don’t run to console the hurt, devastated cheater. Leave them alone in their misery for a little while in order to ascertain what their true desire and motivation is for the emotional breakdown. It is not your place to comfort and reassure at this time. It is simply the time for answers and stating of objectives. Your feelings of anger, hurt, rage, disgust or confusion should in no way be minimized in order to deal with the cheaters outpouring of guilt, sorrow, shame, etc. For once, it should not be about them, but rather about you and you alone.
# 6---Never reveal your source of information. Once you reveal that you obtained his email password, he will change it. Once you admit that you got information from her best friend, she will end that friendship and cut off your ability to obtain future information. And once he discovers you examined the cellphone bill, he will stop the statements from being sent to the house. If you decide to end your relationship, don't do the cheater any favors by letting them know how you obtained your information. Let them go through the rest of their lives thinking that you are a psychic genius. If you decide to reconcile your relationship, you would not want your mate to know how you caught them in case y
Well, I can't see how the marriage can continue if he won't even admit that he is having an affair, but if I were you, I would simply tell him that you know, and is he ready to talk about it yet or not. If he continues to deny it or says he doesn't want to talk about it, then tell him that you are leaving him.
If you're absolutely sure, you have to confront him. If you aren't sure you don't want to end the marriage, listen to what he has to say. Cheating is never okay. If he insists it was meaningless, then you might still have a shot at keeping your marriage. But if he's been having an affair, and not a one night stand, that's going to be a lot harder.
Basically, I think you should confront him. He can't get away with something like that. It's just not okay.
Well for starters, of course he's going to deny it. He's probably not going to admit the truth even if you show him hard evidence. Men can make up some pretty spectacular lies about what they've done. Your best bet, I think, is to reassure him that you have evidence that he cannot deny, and that you're not going to show it to him because you don't feel like having two hours of your life wasted while he babbles his denial.
Have a friend or family member present if you can, in case things get ugly. When caught, cheating males will usually react with anger, and they will throw tantrums. Make sure your witness doesn't get involved, and is just there to serve as a witness.
Don't look like a rundown house wife. Put on some makeup and some nice clothes. Brush your hair. Be confident - don't be all meek and timid. Don't show him that you're nervous!
Above all, don't let him convince you that you're wrong. He will try as hard as he can. Don't give in to him. Just tell him, ';I KNOW that this happened. There is not one single thing you can do or say that can convince me otherwise.';
good luck!
Take it from someone who has been with a cheating ex husband, the pain and thinking about it all the time will eat away at you. Get out now cause if you don't you are going to feel bad about yourself before it is all said and done. I went through a year of wondering what did I do to make him do this. There was nothing that I did it was him not me. No matter what you do there is nothing that makes them do it they just do and while you still have your pride confront him with the proof and kick him to the curb! Good Luck to you!
I have a very good friend who had a cheating husband. She didn't want to leave him for the kids sake at first and she stuck by him for 10 additional years. He was cheating on her the whole time. Finally, she couldn't do it anymore and divorced him. My friend's mother is going through the same thing. She caught her husband chaeting but stuck with him because he ';promised he wouldn't do it again';. We all heard that line before. She had the hard proof and everything but she's too afraid that if she divorced him, she'd be in the poor house. She still miserable with him to this day and is in a terrible dysfunctional family. You need to do what's right for you. Gather your proof, get yourself mentally and financially ready, and drop a bomb on him and leave him. Staying with a cheater just isn't healthy.
A big thing you'll have to cope with is that It's going to hurt a lot but the best thing is to get away ASAP... i know it's emotional but there is so much more in life for you to experience than depression.... trying to salavge this will only delay happiness
Trust me... parents, family, friends, have all been through it... %26amp; i've been the rag doll in this depressing life
just make sure you have a way to live on your own financially for a while before you end it... when you have enough proof for court, hide it and make copies
then comfront him
You don't have to have a special way of telling him you want to end it... he ruined your life so he deserves everything he loses
';i know your cheating ____'; *show him some proof* etcetc... it's over
if you know who he cheated with i would confront that person..chances are theyl get really nervous and itl come out or trick them into telling you...say your husband told you .....i know this is really hard but if a man cheats on yo uand you know hes done it and he denies it..then clearly hes a liar and theres no trust which shows the marriage is doomed..he cheated for a reason and you will need to accept it that your marriage may be over and it may be for the best...hope this helped but i would defo punch the woman lol x
Why would you not want to end this marriage? Do you like knowing that he is with another women? Don't you deserve a better husband?
And believe me he will continue to cheat.
So just come out with the proof and tell him, and then file for divorce.
Half of everything goes to you, There is no fault divorce.
I agree if you know he is without a doubt.. You don't need proof. I would confront him and if he denies it (if you know 199% for sure he is) then you know the marriage is over. If he admits it and wants to work things out with you.. then it is possible to make it. I dont know how long you have been married but the whole 'once a cheater always a cheater thing' I don't think that's true one bit. Everyone makes mistakes and can change. But I do agree the most difficult part of the situation will be whether you can get over it or not. He can always stop cheating but you have to be able to live with the fact that he did.. and not bring up in every argument for the rest of your lives. You have to be completely prepared to get over this and move on.
If so then it is possible. I know first hand. My husband now cheated on me (before we got married) and I wasn't an angel myself. But him and I talked about it.. got married and have the happiest couple ever since. It never even crosses my mind that he'd cheat. I fully 100% trust him.
I guess its up to the both of you as to whether it can work.. Its hard to get over but not impossible.. as it will be hard for him to get away with cheating and not do it again.. but like I said NOT IMPOSSIBLE.
Good luck :)
You say you know who it is. But without proof you really have nothing but suspicions. Many wives are jealous and insecure and believe their husbands are cheating. Are you sure the problem isn't YOU? The fact that you haven't talked to him about it says two things. You really AREN'T sure if he is or you have accused him so many times before that he has threatened to leave you if you continue to do so. SOUND FAMILIAR?
You don't. Take actions...If you have children ask him to leave the house. If you have to, change the lock while he's at work and put his suitcases on the front steps. Why get into an augment? he will always deny it and you don't need to wait to hear it from his mouth...you'll never hear it. Call a lawyer today and inquire on how to proceed. Take him to the cleaner.
Hey,
I'd say if you know then why do you need proof for him. You know it...you know her. So you need nothing.
I'd say start an exit plan. You are not sure if you want to stay or go. But you should be prepared for either.
Sounds like get a lawyer and a guy on the side for you.
BC
OK. Let's get this straight. You can't go on like this but you know your husband is cheating? So what do you want us to tell you?
Just tell him it's ok. Cuz you know that's what your gonna do or you wouldn't be asking this pathetic question!
you leave, if he wants to continue Your relation ship, then he'll get rid of the other woman.and come to u. don't get stuck in a relationship where u r the only 1 trying. or if there or kids involved kick him out.
Get proof and then confront. He will deny it. Mine did. If he doesn't accept responsibility, blames you, or gets mad, you have to end the marriage, in my opinion.
well I would most definitely confront him ..I believe once a cheater always a cheater..but that is just me
just tell him straight up. don't tell him all the facts you have but just say some of them and hire a private investigator it he still denies it.
If you don't end the marriage he will cheat again. Stay if you want to be miserable
Leave him. You deserve much better. No one should have to be miserable like that.
if you got busy yourself you could get off his back. once a cheater, always a cheater. if you can't take the heat get out of the the kitchen and find a chef that makes it your way.How do I confront a cheating husband. I know who he is cheating with?
If you want to salvage the marriage, but your husband is in denial, see if you can get physical proof like a video tape and confront him with it.
This might be one of the few instances where hiring a PI might be useful. Most of the time, a PI is biased toward selling you the worst truth possible, sometimes an outright lie, but if you KNOW the end result, then they'll just give you proof, which you can use to confront your husband and demand that he go to counseling.
If confronted with proof, and if he refuses to go to counseling, then you are better off ending things.
When a husband cheats on his wife he is no longer there and committed to you.
He takes everything that was and anything that could of been and sticks it all in the garbage can.
It stinks and nothing smells worse than someones nasty *** rot looking you straight in the face and lying.
Ask yourself this .... What would I do if he admitted the truth to me that I already know?
When someone is being dishonest to you they have no intent of making things better or right.
They keep important information from you not to protect you but to protect themselves.
Actually when someone is not giving you the truth it can become even more harmful to you than knowing it.
They end up having to live with it and always have to watch and remember what they do and say with you and things are never real on their comfort zone.
I would continue to confront him once again and make him accountable for his actions and behavior with marriage counseling if you are positively sure you do not want to end the marriage yet.
If he refuses to recommit and do what it takes with you to salvage the relationship then he gives you no other choice but to walk out of his life.
Before confronting him, at least make sure that he is in fact cheating. At least you are going to be more firm to whatever you are going to say to him. If he lie to you, he has no way of talking you out of it because you are 100% sure. And if you do confront him, you better think carefully of all the consequences that is going to take place after the confrontation. Because if nothing will happen after the confrontation, you will just give him the impression that he could walk out of it anytime coz nothing change. I would not suggest to separate with him neither stay with him because its your life. You should know better how much you value your relationship despite of the fact that you his cheating. Some spouse tries to give their partner another chance; some dont's. Its up to you. Good luck.
Do some detective work and find out for sure.... take a day off, rent a car he can't recognize, and follow him.
Then , hon, ya divorce the guy.
Understand that only 20% of marriages with betrayal survive even 2 years, and that is with both in counseling, and both hoping to save it... Tho women do get over the eeewwww factor easier than when the wife cheats, it is still tooooo big a wad to swallow.
Admit it's over, file, end it, never look back. There are sooooooooooo many nice men out there who, if you are a neat lady, would love to be your partner. But you can never find them with this albatross around your neck. And when the trust is gone, the rest of the marriage is over, and it becomes drama, drama, drama.
Marriages are Respect,Admirationn, Passion and Trust... the four biggies, and when the Trust is gone because the Passion is getting shared, the other two are in the toilet too, aren't they.... flush it hon, find out what's going on, and bail.... once a cheater, really, always one.
lol, seriously, why do women do this? You know he's cheating, you even know the person. But you don't want to end the marriage over it, you realize that if you don't end it, your telling him that it's ok to go out and cheat on you? Your just telling him to keep doing what he's doing.
Your type of thinking is the exact reason men feel they can get away with cheating over and over again. If women would just kick the cheaters to the curb, then maybe these dumb guys would eventually get the idea in their head that cheating isn't worth it.
Wow this is very hard situation to deal with. It's very hurtful, disrespectful, and I can only imagine the way you are feeling right now. My deepest apology is with you, because I know how hard this is. I have had plenty of experence dealing with this...SO PLEASE @least read my advice...IT WILL HELP...
# 1---Never let on that you are suspicious of your spouse until you have gathered numerous pieces of evidence. If you rush in and confront them after finding one telephone number or text message, you run the risk of alerting them to your suspicions. Not only will they now stay on their toes, but they will make sure you never, ever have access to your source of information again (ie: cellphone, credit card bill, wallet, etc.) The goal is to behave normally and give them the impression that things are “business as usual”. It is when cheaters are in their comfort zone that they slip up and make crucial mistakes.
# 2---Never let the cheater catch you snooping. It is always wise to have a reason for being where you found what you found prior to getting caught snooping. You need to have your story planned out and plausible in advance. Therefore, when you get caught digging through his briefcase, you can claim to be looking for the electric bill that was misplaced and might have gotten mixed up with his papers. Getting caught snooping without having a valid reason for being there is a red flag to the cheater. That’s why you should always have a $20 bill handy so that when you get caught snooping through her purse you can claim to be looking for smaller bills to pay the gardener, paper boy, kids coach, etc.
#3---Never allow the cheater to turn the tables on you and attack you before they provide a valid explanation for their behavior. Once confronted with facts, they will try to pull a Jedi Mind Trick on you by calling you crazy, stupid, psycho, insecure, childish, petty, ridiculous, looking for trouble or trying to start something. All of this will occur before responding to your question about who they were having drinks with after work last Friday. Don’t let them twist the issue. Acknowledge that you are whatever they say you are and then demand that they give you an answer to your question. In other words say, “Yeah, I’m stupid and insecure. Fine. So who is she and how long have you two been screwing around?” Once you allow them to turn the tables, attack you, and then leave the confrontation, you will likely never get to the bottom of the story because he/she will have gained additional time to get their story straight.
# 4---Never allow the cheater to make you explain their behavior. In other words, never get drawn in to the game where they expect you to explain why they would or are doing what you suspect them of doing. A typical cheater will say something like this, “Why would I resume a relationship with my ex when you know how important this family is to me?” or “Why would I have an affair with someone at work when I know your sister/cousin/ best friend/dog works there?” or even, “Why would I do that to you when you know how much I love you?” These are tricks to confuse the victim and make them rationalize why someone wouldn’t have an affair. For committed, unselfish, honest people these rationalizations make sense, but when a cheater is caught up in the throes of an affair, normal, rational thinking is replaced by whatever selfish behavior is necessary to accomplish their goals.
# 5---Never be fooled by confrontation tears. Although they may be sincere, be sure to distinguish between “I’m sorry” tears and “I’m sorry I got caught” tears. Even though tears may be a good starting point for reconciliation, be mindful of who the real victim is here. Don’t run to console the hurt, devastated cheater. Leave them alone in their misery for a little while in order to ascertain what their true desire and motivation is for the emotional breakdown. It is not your place to comfort and reassure at this time. It is simply the time for answers and stating of objectives. Your feelings of anger, hurt, rage, disgust or confusion should in no way be minimized in order to deal with the cheaters outpouring of guilt, sorrow, shame, etc. For once, it should not be about them, but rather about you and you alone.
# 6---Never reveal your source of information. Once you reveal that you obtained his email password, he will change it. Once you admit that you got information from her best friend, she will end that friendship and cut off your ability to obtain future information. And once he discovers you examined the cellphone bill, he will stop the statements from being sent to the house. If you decide to end your relationship, don't do the cheater any favors by letting them know how you obtained your information. Let them go through the rest of their lives thinking that you are a psychic genius. If you decide to reconcile your relationship, you would not want your mate to know how you caught them in case y
Well, I can't see how the marriage can continue if he won't even admit that he is having an affair, but if I were you, I would simply tell him that you know, and is he ready to talk about it yet or not. If he continues to deny it or says he doesn't want to talk about it, then tell him that you are leaving him.
If you're absolutely sure, you have to confront him. If you aren't sure you don't want to end the marriage, listen to what he has to say. Cheating is never okay. If he insists it was meaningless, then you might still have a shot at keeping your marriage. But if he's been having an affair, and not a one night stand, that's going to be a lot harder.
Basically, I think you should confront him. He can't get away with something like that. It's just not okay.
Well for starters, of course he's going to deny it. He's probably not going to admit the truth even if you show him hard evidence. Men can make up some pretty spectacular lies about what they've done. Your best bet, I think, is to reassure him that you have evidence that he cannot deny, and that you're not going to show it to him because you don't feel like having two hours of your life wasted while he babbles his denial.
Have a friend or family member present if you can, in case things get ugly. When caught, cheating males will usually react with anger, and they will throw tantrums. Make sure your witness doesn't get involved, and is just there to serve as a witness.
Don't look like a rundown house wife. Put on some makeup and some nice clothes. Brush your hair. Be confident - don't be all meek and timid. Don't show him that you're nervous!
Above all, don't let him convince you that you're wrong. He will try as hard as he can. Don't give in to him. Just tell him, ';I KNOW that this happened. There is not one single thing you can do or say that can convince me otherwise.';
good luck!
Take it from someone who has been with a cheating ex husband, the pain and thinking about it all the time will eat away at you. Get out now cause if you don't you are going to feel bad about yourself before it is all said and done. I went through a year of wondering what did I do to make him do this. There was nothing that I did it was him not me. No matter what you do there is nothing that makes them do it they just do and while you still have your pride confront him with the proof and kick him to the curb! Good Luck to you!
I have a very good friend who had a cheating husband. She didn't want to leave him for the kids sake at first and she stuck by him for 10 additional years. He was cheating on her the whole time. Finally, she couldn't do it anymore and divorced him. My friend's mother is going through the same thing. She caught her husband chaeting but stuck with him because he ';promised he wouldn't do it again';. We all heard that line before. She had the hard proof and everything but she's too afraid that if she divorced him, she'd be in the poor house. She still miserable with him to this day and is in a terrible dysfunctional family. You need to do what's right for you. Gather your proof, get yourself mentally and financially ready, and drop a bomb on him and leave him. Staying with a cheater just isn't healthy.
A big thing you'll have to cope with is that It's going to hurt a lot but the best thing is to get away ASAP... i know it's emotional but there is so much more in life for you to experience than depression.... trying to salavge this will only delay happiness
Trust me... parents, family, friends, have all been through it... %26amp; i've been the rag doll in this depressing life
just make sure you have a way to live on your own financially for a while before you end it... when you have enough proof for court, hide it and make copies
then comfront him
You don't have to have a special way of telling him you want to end it... he ruined your life so he deserves everything he loses
';i know your cheating ____'; *show him some proof* etcetc... it's over
if you know who he cheated with i would confront that person..chances are theyl get really nervous and itl come out or trick them into telling you...say your husband told you .....i know this is really hard but if a man cheats on yo uand you know hes done it and he denies it..then clearly hes a liar and theres no trust which shows the marriage is doomed..he cheated for a reason and you will need to accept it that your marriage may be over and it may be for the best...hope this helped but i would defo punch the woman lol x
Why would you not want to end this marriage? Do you like knowing that he is with another women? Don't you deserve a better husband?
And believe me he will continue to cheat.
So just come out with the proof and tell him, and then file for divorce.
Half of everything goes to you, There is no fault divorce.
I agree if you know he is without a doubt.. You don't need proof. I would confront him and if he denies it (if you know 199% for sure he is) then you know the marriage is over. If he admits it and wants to work things out with you.. then it is possible to make it. I dont know how long you have been married but the whole 'once a cheater always a cheater thing' I don't think that's true one bit. Everyone makes mistakes and can change. But I do agree the most difficult part of the situation will be whether you can get over it or not. He can always stop cheating but you have to be able to live with the fact that he did.. and not bring up in every argument for the rest of your lives. You have to be completely prepared to get over this and move on.
If so then it is possible. I know first hand. My husband now cheated on me (before we got married) and I wasn't an angel myself. But him and I talked about it.. got married and have the happiest couple ever since. It never even crosses my mind that he'd cheat. I fully 100% trust him.
I guess its up to the both of you as to whether it can work.. Its hard to get over but not impossible.. as it will be hard for him to get away with cheating and not do it again.. but like I said NOT IMPOSSIBLE.
Good luck :)
You say you know who it is. But without proof you really have nothing but suspicions. Many wives are jealous and insecure and believe their husbands are cheating. Are you sure the problem isn't YOU? The fact that you haven't talked to him about it says two things. You really AREN'T sure if he is or you have accused him so many times before that he has threatened to leave you if you continue to do so. SOUND FAMILIAR?
You don't. Take actions...If you have children ask him to leave the house. If you have to, change the lock while he's at work and put his suitcases on the front steps. Why get into an augment? he will always deny it and you don't need to wait to hear it from his mouth...you'll never hear it. Call a lawyer today and inquire on how to proceed. Take him to the cleaner.
Hey,
I'd say if you know then why do you need proof for him. You know it...you know her. So you need nothing.
I'd say start an exit plan. You are not sure if you want to stay or go. But you should be prepared for either.
Sounds like get a lawyer and a guy on the side for you.
BC
OK. Let's get this straight. You can't go on like this but you know your husband is cheating? So what do you want us to tell you?
Just tell him it's ok. Cuz you know that's what your gonna do or you wouldn't be asking this pathetic question!
you leave, if he wants to continue Your relation ship, then he'll get rid of the other woman.and come to u. don't get stuck in a relationship where u r the only 1 trying. or if there or kids involved kick him out.
Get proof and then confront. He will deny it. Mine did. If he doesn't accept responsibility, blames you, or gets mad, you have to end the marriage, in my opinion.
well I would most definitely confront him ..I believe once a cheater always a cheater..but that is just me
just tell him straight up. don't tell him all the facts you have but just say some of them and hire a private investigator it he still denies it.
If you don't end the marriage he will cheat again. Stay if you want to be miserable
Leave him. You deserve much better. No one should have to be miserable like that.
How come men never get looked down at when they get caught cheating?
How come whenever a man is caught cheating he isn't the one who takes all the blame? Why is it that the other woman takes all the responsibility for the relationship when the man was just as bad if not worse seeing how he let something like that go on? Just curious after seeing all these stars get caught cheating and then everyone blames the other women completely but just slaps the men on the hand and says ';they have an addiction'; or that ';boys will be boys'; bull crap? I'm not saying the other woman isn't to blame but seeing how the man is putting his family and everything on the line shouldn't he get equally blamed too???How come men never get looked down at when they get caught cheating?
i do not see the men getting away with anything look at the hell the golfer went Thur and is going through .but when i guy gets lucky he is a stud but the girl put out and is looked down at .that is the why it is.and ya i am glad i am a guy.How come men never get looked down at when they get caught cheating?
I think they are both equally to blame and they deserve eachother, except in the case where the woman is innocent and has no clue because she has been lied to. But I think men are looked down upon esp. since many woman sacrifice career and their lives to raise his children and when a woman seduces a married man (which does happen) and she knows his married and with kids, she's just a ______, just like him. Hence they deserve eachother. And it's bad because the STD rate is 1 in 4 has an STD.
The man is primarily to blame, and so is his partner. When a partner cheats there is a marriage problem not a husband or wife who cheats problem but a joint marriage problem. The affair is only a symptom a much deeper issue in the relationship. I have counseled too many couples to believe in innocent spouses - there are virtually none. The cheater and their partner both played a role in the affair. Frankly I could care less about the other woman or the other man in some cases - they are only a symptom and if it wasn't them it would be someone else.
two examples:
A guy works 12-16 hours a day earning a good living while his wife is home with two kids and hardly has any adult time with her husband. Is he innocent when she falls for a neighbor who does have to time to make her feel special? or did he fail in his obligation to her too?
Another couple married for many years. She decides the marriage was a mistake and cuts off any intimacy. After 5 years of living separately in the same home, he has an affair with one of his graduate students. She finds out and files divorce claiming adultery. Is she innocent? Or was she the first to violate the wedding vows?
Here is a rare innocent spouse story: Man marries a woman who had used drugs in past but had been clean for 2 years. They marry have a son and after 4 years she annouces that while she likes her marriage - a sober life cannot compete with the drug life she knew and loved and she has decided to return to the streets of the city. She leaves the child with him and walks out of their lives to be addict in DC.
I'll give you a second name. Jesse James. I have heard nobody say anything bad about his mistresses (h#ll, they media even showed the one sympathy that got played)
Pretty much everybody thinks Jesse James is a complete idiot, and I've haven't heard anybody pulling punches on that.
People can and do get angry at their boyfriends for cheating on them and a lot of them leave them. And this is harsh for a lot of people to find out, but if you don't get mad at your boyfriend for cheating, he'll lose respect for you.
Because a cheating woman is 1,000 times worse. If a man cheats, he cannot tell the wife that she is mother of his child. Therefore, his cheating does little or no harm. However, when a woman cheats, she can and will tell the husband that he is the father. Therefore, her cheating is horrible and is a huge injustice.
you can thank our society. Women still make only 70 cents for every dollar a man makes in the same field with the same experience. I know-its hypocritical but currently thats the way it is.
What planet have you been living on for the last 6 months? Have you seen the beating that Tiger has taken in the media, financially, ...?
Tiger Woods is a prime example of why WOMEN want attention and try to become famous off the backs of stars by dropping the bombs, and not always telling the complete truth.
Nobody really knows what goes on in someone's marriage. They can look perfectly fine on the outside, but when you get them behind closed doors, it's a different story all together.
Just because his wife is hot, doesn't mean that she isn't a *****. It doesn't mean she wasn't lacking in support for her husband through things, etc...I don't know the inner workings of Tiger's marriage nor anyone else's but mine and neither do any of us. We get one sided stories from our friends that are usually told in a way to slant blame on the other spouse when in fact we in the lease should take some responsibility for their infidelity.
If people minded their own business, tended to their own marriages, paid attention to their spouses verbal and non-verbal communication...there would be a lot less infidelity to begin with.
1 name; Tiger Woods. You're an idiot if you think no one has talked badly about the incident(s).
In a relationship where at least one of the persons is ';cheating';, it's a shared responsibility and I haven't seen it otherwise. If a single woman goes out with a married man, they are both at fault. If a single man goes out with a married woman, ditto.
Somehow society thinks a women should have more values and morals, I have no idea why this is the case. You would expect a man to behave with just as much integrity.
sleeping around (when you're a man) is cool. it makes you a pimp and a rebel, they're ';bad boys'; and women go for that. women like the riskiness of being a mistress. but they're looked at as whores. what kind of a woman would sleep with a married man?! how dare she! (i guess society expects women to have more decency and more morals than men) but men do it so much that people just assume thats how they are, and its normal for them to do.
The women who cheated with Tiger were just as much to blame as him, if not worse, knowing that he is a married man. These women who cheated with Tiger have no pride or self esteem - they obviously have no self worth and Tiger was obviously NOT choosy who he had sex with. Very Sad!
Tigers wife is definitely a victim of a man with absolutely no self control or shame.
i do not see the men getting away with anything look at the hell the golfer went Thur and is going through .but when i guy gets lucky he is a stud but the girl put out and is looked down at .that is the why it is.and ya i am glad i am a guy.How come men never get looked down at when they get caught cheating?
I think they are both equally to blame and they deserve eachother, except in the case where the woman is innocent and has no clue because she has been lied to. But I think men are looked down upon esp. since many woman sacrifice career and their lives to raise his children and when a woman seduces a married man (which does happen) and she knows his married and with kids, she's just a ______, just like him. Hence they deserve eachother. And it's bad because the STD rate is 1 in 4 has an STD.
The man is primarily to blame, and so is his partner. When a partner cheats there is a marriage problem not a husband or wife who cheats problem but a joint marriage problem. The affair is only a symptom a much deeper issue in the relationship. I have counseled too many couples to believe in innocent spouses - there are virtually none. The cheater and their partner both played a role in the affair. Frankly I could care less about the other woman or the other man in some cases - they are only a symptom and if it wasn't them it would be someone else.
two examples:
A guy works 12-16 hours a day earning a good living while his wife is home with two kids and hardly has any adult time with her husband. Is he innocent when she falls for a neighbor who does have to time to make her feel special? or did he fail in his obligation to her too?
Another couple married for many years. She decides the marriage was a mistake and cuts off any intimacy. After 5 years of living separately in the same home, he has an affair with one of his graduate students. She finds out and files divorce claiming adultery. Is she innocent? Or was she the first to violate the wedding vows?
Here is a rare innocent spouse story: Man marries a woman who had used drugs in past but had been clean for 2 years. They marry have a son and after 4 years she annouces that while she likes her marriage - a sober life cannot compete with the drug life she knew and loved and she has decided to return to the streets of the city. She leaves the child with him and walks out of their lives to be addict in DC.
I'll give you a second name. Jesse James. I have heard nobody say anything bad about his mistresses (h#ll, they media even showed the one sympathy that got played)
Pretty much everybody thinks Jesse James is a complete idiot, and I've haven't heard anybody pulling punches on that.
People can and do get angry at their boyfriends for cheating on them and a lot of them leave them. And this is harsh for a lot of people to find out, but if you don't get mad at your boyfriend for cheating, he'll lose respect for you.
Because a cheating woman is 1,000 times worse. If a man cheats, he cannot tell the wife that she is mother of his child. Therefore, his cheating does little or no harm. However, when a woman cheats, she can and will tell the husband that he is the father. Therefore, her cheating is horrible and is a huge injustice.
you can thank our society. Women still make only 70 cents for every dollar a man makes in the same field with the same experience. I know-its hypocritical but currently thats the way it is.
What planet have you been living on for the last 6 months? Have you seen the beating that Tiger has taken in the media, financially, ...?
Tiger Woods is a prime example of why WOMEN want attention and try to become famous off the backs of stars by dropping the bombs, and not always telling the complete truth.
Nobody really knows what goes on in someone's marriage. They can look perfectly fine on the outside, but when you get them behind closed doors, it's a different story all together.
Just because his wife is hot, doesn't mean that she isn't a *****. It doesn't mean she wasn't lacking in support for her husband through things, etc...I don't know the inner workings of Tiger's marriage nor anyone else's but mine and neither do any of us. We get one sided stories from our friends that are usually told in a way to slant blame on the other spouse when in fact we in the lease should take some responsibility for their infidelity.
If people minded their own business, tended to their own marriages, paid attention to their spouses verbal and non-verbal communication...there would be a lot less infidelity to begin with.
1 name; Tiger Woods. You're an idiot if you think no one has talked badly about the incident(s).
In a relationship where at least one of the persons is ';cheating';, it's a shared responsibility and I haven't seen it otherwise. If a single woman goes out with a married man, they are both at fault. If a single man goes out with a married woman, ditto.
Somehow society thinks a women should have more values and morals, I have no idea why this is the case. You would expect a man to behave with just as much integrity.
sleeping around (when you're a man) is cool. it makes you a pimp and a rebel, they're ';bad boys'; and women go for that. women like the riskiness of being a mistress. but they're looked at as whores. what kind of a woman would sleep with a married man?! how dare she! (i guess society expects women to have more decency and more morals than men) but men do it so much that people just assume thats how they are, and its normal for them to do.
The women who cheated with Tiger were just as much to blame as him, if not worse, knowing that he is a married man. These women who cheated with Tiger have no pride or self esteem - they obviously have no self worth and Tiger was obviously NOT choosy who he had sex with. Very Sad!
Tigers wife is definitely a victim of a man with absolutely no self control or shame.
How should I come about asking my boyfriend if he is cheating?
I posted a question about 15 minutes ago about how I thought my boyfriend was cheating on me (please read)..
How should I confront him. I don't want him to think I don't trust him, which I kind of don't but I don't want the relationship to end if he isn't cheating..How should I come about asking my boyfriend if he is cheating?
He is completely disrespecting you to ditch you to hang out with her. She sounds desperate enough to try to sleep with him to drag him away from you and he sounds like he would do it.
Just dump him. If you have to be scared to ask him if he is cheating you have no kind of a relationship anyways.How should I come about asking my boyfriend if he is cheating?
Don't rush into anything double check, triple check be certain that you are doing the right thing because if he was not cheating you will feel like a fool and your boyfriend will be hurt. I'd suggest you invite this girl for dinner or a night out to try and get to know her better plus to help you come to your decision.
I agree with ';thatartistwin';. Sure, she's his friend, but honestly...I'd be pretty pissed if my b/f picked ';talk to female friend time'; over ';alone time with girlfriend';. That doesn't add up. Especially if it happens a lot. I do agree that the girl obviously has feelings for your guy, and she's disrespecting not only you, but your guy as well for intruding on your relationship. If I were you, I'd say something like this:
';So what's going on with (insert female ';friend's'; name here)? She seems to want your attention an awful lot lately...should I be concerned?';
DO NOT let him shake you off and say it's nothing. If he does, look him dead in the eye and say your serious. If this situation makes you uncomfortable, then HE should be the concerned one. Talk it out, and if worst comes to worst, you can always find someone better, who takes time to take an interest in your feelings and respect them. I hope this helped. Good luck!
You're not overreacting. Just tell him how you feel when he leaves you and spend a lot of time with her. But don't ask him if he's cheating or tell him that you think he's cheating. Wait to see how reacts when you tell him how you feel. Tell him she gives you the cold shoulder.
If you really think he is cheating.... than he prolly is... There should be no doubt in a relationship or else it wont last...
Dump his ***!!!
How should I confront him. I don't want him to think I don't trust him, which I kind of don't but I don't want the relationship to end if he isn't cheating..How should I come about asking my boyfriend if he is cheating?
He is completely disrespecting you to ditch you to hang out with her. She sounds desperate enough to try to sleep with him to drag him away from you and he sounds like he would do it.
Just dump him. If you have to be scared to ask him if he is cheating you have no kind of a relationship anyways.How should I come about asking my boyfriend if he is cheating?
Don't rush into anything double check, triple check be certain that you are doing the right thing because if he was not cheating you will feel like a fool and your boyfriend will be hurt. I'd suggest you invite this girl for dinner or a night out to try and get to know her better plus to help you come to your decision.
I agree with ';thatartistwin';. Sure, she's his friend, but honestly...I'd be pretty pissed if my b/f picked ';talk to female friend time'; over ';alone time with girlfriend';. That doesn't add up. Especially if it happens a lot. I do agree that the girl obviously has feelings for your guy, and she's disrespecting not only you, but your guy as well for intruding on your relationship. If I were you, I'd say something like this:
';So what's going on with (insert female ';friend's'; name here)? She seems to want your attention an awful lot lately...should I be concerned?';
DO NOT let him shake you off and say it's nothing. If he does, look him dead in the eye and say your serious. If this situation makes you uncomfortable, then HE should be the concerned one. Talk it out, and if worst comes to worst, you can always find someone better, who takes time to take an interest in your feelings and respect them. I hope this helped. Good luck!
You're not overreacting. Just tell him how you feel when he leaves you and spend a lot of time with her. But don't ask him if he's cheating or tell him that you think he's cheating. Wait to see how reacts when you tell him how you feel. Tell him she gives you the cold shoulder.
If you really think he is cheating.... than he prolly is... There should be no doubt in a relationship or else it wont last...
Dump his ***!!!
How can I avoid someone who I'm cheating with not to leave me after cheating with each other on our spouses ?
We are cheating just for love and pleasure , but I hate the idea that one day he may leave me . We are secretly with each other since 2 years .How can I avoid someone who I'm cheating with not to leave me after cheating with each other on our spouses ?
I'm sorry but i believe that if they are cheating with you then they will cheat on you and there is nothing or no-one in this world that can do or say anything to change that.If they wanted to be with you forever then they wouldn't have a spouse.In the long run you may just lose that person and your spouse and wind up with no one so you need to choose which is not pleasurable but a lifetime commitment.How can I avoid someone who I'm cheating with not to leave me after cheating with each other on our spouses ?
You may be having a great time now but judging from your question you're bound to hurt yourself even more if you continue. You're not being realistic if you think it'll last forever unless both of you have already pledged to end your other relationships (99% of the times, this is usually not the case).
The greatest motivator for ending an affair is; taking a good hard look at your life, realizing what you have now, and what you want to have, and where you want to be a few years down the road.
You need to end the affair...
So, What is holding you back from being officially together ! instead of sneaking around afraid that he will leave you one day !! I don't get the point of cheating for two years without a CHANGE !
You two should either break up with your current spouses and be together or break up with eachother and try to live with it !
Im curious, how would that make you feel if this person cheated on you? Now can you imagine how your spouse would feel if they only knew? The only positive way to avoid this, is to stop cheating on your spouse, and enjoy the love and pleasure with them and them only.
you deserve whatever you get. you are cheating because you're selfish. lust and ignorance. good luck. you don't deserve it.
Just be honest with yourself. Your a Dirty Girl 4 life and that's ok, we still love you. So will your guy. Keep the relationship open, maybe do some swinging.
If it is OK for him to cheat on his wife, surely it is equally OK to cheat on you (He probably does, anyway)
in my opinion you've bought this on yourself.
you will always find it hard to trust someone because you yourself cannot be trusted
people like you who cheat can never be trusted
so there is always the possibility he may have others on the side
Playing with fire,your bound to get burnt.
He,ll do the same to u, that,s for sure !!!
easy.. don't cheat in the first place!
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I'm sorry but i believe that if they are cheating with you then they will cheat on you and there is nothing or no-one in this world that can do or say anything to change that.If they wanted to be with you forever then they wouldn't have a spouse.In the long run you may just lose that person and your spouse and wind up with no one so you need to choose which is not pleasurable but a lifetime commitment.How can I avoid someone who I'm cheating with not to leave me after cheating with each other on our spouses ?
You may be having a great time now but judging from your question you're bound to hurt yourself even more if you continue. You're not being realistic if you think it'll last forever unless both of you have already pledged to end your other relationships (99% of the times, this is usually not the case).
The greatest motivator for ending an affair is; taking a good hard look at your life, realizing what you have now, and what you want to have, and where you want to be a few years down the road.
You need to end the affair...
So, What is holding you back from being officially together ! instead of sneaking around afraid that he will leave you one day !! I don't get the point of cheating for two years without a CHANGE !
You two should either break up with your current spouses and be together or break up with eachother and try to live with it !
Im curious, how would that make you feel if this person cheated on you? Now can you imagine how your spouse would feel if they only knew? The only positive way to avoid this, is to stop cheating on your spouse, and enjoy the love and pleasure with them and them only.
you deserve whatever you get. you are cheating because you're selfish. lust and ignorance. good luck. you don't deserve it.
Just be honest with yourself. Your a Dirty Girl 4 life and that's ok, we still love you. So will your guy. Keep the relationship open, maybe do some swinging.
If it is OK for him to cheat on his wife, surely it is equally OK to cheat on you (He probably does, anyway)
in my opinion you've bought this on yourself.
you will always find it hard to trust someone because you yourself cannot be trusted
people like you who cheat can never be trusted
so there is always the possibility he may have others on the side
Playing with fire,your bound to get burnt.
He,ll do the same to u, that,s for sure !!!
easy.. don't cheat in the first place!
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How can i catch my girlfriend cheating on me?
I really think my girlfriend is cheating on me, she always is talking to other girls, and is like well i have to go because my girls here. Or I cant talk about that my girls here?
So any advice:/How can i catch my girlfriend cheating on me?
well girls to like to talk to eachother i honestly don't think its cheating. if you are really worried though you should just try to talk to her about it. nd if she says that she isn't cheating on you then you should believe her. if you still feel ify on the whole situation then just let everything cool down for a while and maybe take a break from the relationship.
So any advice:/How can i catch my girlfriend cheating on me?
well girls to like to talk to eachother i honestly don't think its cheating. if you are really worried though you should just try to talk to her about it. nd if she says that she isn't cheating on you then you should believe her. if you still feel ify on the whole situation then just let everything cool down for a while and maybe take a break from the relationship.
How can you unlock the new medic gear in Team fortress 2 without cheating?
I really want to get the medic gear without cheating but i dont know which acheivements to earn to get that gear, so plz help!How can you unlock the new medic gear in Team fortress 2 without cheating?
There are 36 medic achievements. When you complere the first 12, you get “The Blutsauger”. Completeing the next 12, you get “The Kritzkrieg” and beating all 36, you get “The Ubersaw”.
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There are 36 medic achievements. When you complere the first 12, you get “The Blutsauger”. Completeing the next 12, you get “The Kritzkrieg” and beating all 36, you get “The Ubersaw”.
Here is a list of all 36 Medic achievements:
http://www.thevideogamerentalsite.com/9/…
Do you remember a HP fanfic which included Harry cheating on Ginny and her kissing Draco in retaliation?
I know in the story Ginny is furious, and is yelling at Harry in front of a lot of people for cheating on her. I think she throws fire at him, and eventually tomatoes. Then she asks Harry if he knows what it felt like to find out he was cheating, and she grabs Draco and kisses him to show Harry how it felt. I know this is a long shot, but does anyone know where I can find this fanfiction again? Or what it's called?Do you remember a HP fanfic which included Harry cheating on Ginny and her kissing Draco in retaliation?
It's called ';Harry Potter and the Idiotic Fanfic';Do you remember a HP fanfic which included Harry cheating on Ginny and her kissing Draco in retaliation?
I'm sorry, I don't know the answer, but you could try asking the question on the forums of fanfiction.org. They have a section for that and it's more likely you'll find someone who remembers there.
It's called ';Harry Potter and the Idiotic Fanfic';Do you remember a HP fanfic which included Harry cheating on Ginny and her kissing Draco in retaliation?
I'm sorry, I don't know the answer, but you could try asking the question on the forums of fanfiction.org. They have a section for that and it's more likely you'll find someone who remembers there.
How can you tell if shes cheating?
What signs or things can you notice to tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you?How can you tell if shes cheating?
Her behavior.
Is her attention on you the same as it was in the beginning?
Has she lost the cuddly close affection with you?
Is she turning down to be with you unusually frequent now?
Does she speak to you as much as in the beginning?
Does she put you off?
The list is endless.....Use your own common sence.
How can you tell if shes cheating?
honestly it depends on the girl.. my ex cheated on me and i had no clue. she was two completely different people. i have learned throughout the years that the best way to live is, trust her. if she is cheating on you and someone ';tells'; you and you catch her then its over, but you cant assume bad things, because it will only destroy your relationship
To me just you thinking she is cheating is reason enough
your 1st instinct is never wrong
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Her behavior.
Is her attention on you the same as it was in the beginning?
Has she lost the cuddly close affection with you?
Is she turning down to be with you unusually frequent now?
Does she speak to you as much as in the beginning?
Does she put you off?
The list is endless.....Use your own common sence.
How can you tell if shes cheating?
honestly it depends on the girl.. my ex cheated on me and i had no clue. she was two completely different people. i have learned throughout the years that the best way to live is, trust her. if she is cheating on you and someone ';tells'; you and you catch her then its over, but you cant assume bad things, because it will only destroy your relationship
To me just you thinking she is cheating is reason enough
your 1st instinct is never wrong
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How can I take action against Cheating Travel Agent in Bangalore?
Hi,
I have obtain 5 fake visit visa for Dubai, through cheating travel agent in Bangalore. Total lost for me around INR 100,000.00. I am living in Sri Lanka. Please advise me how to take legal action against this company? Shall I use a private investigation firm?
Your suggestions are highly appreciated.
ThanksHow can I take action against Cheating Travel Agent in Bangalore?
I will suggets you to hier some good criminal advocate and logged a FIR in the local police station of the place where that agent is having his office along with a letter to SSP of the city.How can I take action against Cheating Travel Agent in Bangalore?
Are you based in Bangalore or in England? Either way, take it to a consumer watchdog (Google the phrase) if you have one.
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I have obtain 5 fake visit visa for Dubai, through cheating travel agent in Bangalore. Total lost for me around INR 100,000.00. I am living in Sri Lanka. Please advise me how to take legal action against this company? Shall I use a private investigation firm?
Your suggestions are highly appreciated.
ThanksHow can I take action against Cheating Travel Agent in Bangalore?
I will suggets you to hier some good criminal advocate and logged a FIR in the local police station of the place where that agent is having his office along with a letter to SSP of the city.How can I take action against Cheating Travel Agent in Bangalore?
Are you based in Bangalore or in England? Either way, take it to a consumer watchdog (Google the phrase) if you have one.
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How did your hubby or ex react when you caught him of cheating?
Please tell me how did your husband or ex react when you first accused him of cheating. Assume that you have found some hard proof, what was his reaction? Mine, kept denying everything and I told to his family members and close friends, he started to say negative things about me. I know best defense is good offense, so I'm not surprised. Tell me if anyone else reacted this way? What was the reaction you got?How did your hubby or ex react when you caught him of cheating?
Lets see...mine got what I call the ';defensive face';. I told him I saw his little texts and his face completely shut down, he closed his mouth and didn't say a word. He just stood there with that look on his face while I yelled and ranted at him. At first, of course, he yelled at me and asked me when I started to look at stuff that wasn't mine..so I countered with ';When you decided to start cheating!!!!';. That shut him him up!
GTO Judge-That came later on.....on how everything he had done was my own fault!!! Somehow I unzipped his pants and put him in bed with that woman!!! Loser!!!How did your hubby or ex react when you caught him of cheating?
It's amazing how you catch them in the act %26amp; they can still deny it to your face. I found text messages to a girl where he was telling her ';Good night babe';. He's still claiming they are just friends and that he had only been calling her for a couple of weeks. I went online %26amp; looked up his cell phone records, turns out he had been calling her for 3 mths and he was calling her up to 20 times x day %26amp; he only called me once or twice per day. He even threw in the ';I would never go through your cell phone'; line. Long story short me %26amp; my kids are moving out 2morrow.
he flew off the wall when i showed him their love letters. he wanted to beat the crap out of me. they are still together. lucky me i found a great guy to marry huh?
A big, resounding, ';YOU'RE CRAZY';!!!! is what he told me.
He is now my EX husband, of course!
At first, he denied everything, then he came up with quite a few reasons why I DROVE him to cheat. BS, all of them.
You are presuming that my husband has cheated on me.
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Lets see...mine got what I call the ';defensive face';. I told him I saw his little texts and his face completely shut down, he closed his mouth and didn't say a word. He just stood there with that look on his face while I yelled and ranted at him. At first, of course, he yelled at me and asked me when I started to look at stuff that wasn't mine..so I countered with ';When you decided to start cheating!!!!';. That shut him him up!
GTO Judge-That came later on.....on how everything he had done was my own fault!!! Somehow I unzipped his pants and put him in bed with that woman!!! Loser!!!How did your hubby or ex react when you caught him of cheating?
It's amazing how you catch them in the act %26amp; they can still deny it to your face. I found text messages to a girl where he was telling her ';Good night babe';. He's still claiming they are just friends and that he had only been calling her for a couple of weeks. I went online %26amp; looked up his cell phone records, turns out he had been calling her for 3 mths and he was calling her up to 20 times x day %26amp; he only called me once or twice per day. He even threw in the ';I would never go through your cell phone'; line. Long story short me %26amp; my kids are moving out 2morrow.
he flew off the wall when i showed him their love letters. he wanted to beat the crap out of me. they are still together. lucky me i found a great guy to marry huh?
A big, resounding, ';YOU'RE CRAZY';!!!! is what he told me.
He is now my EX husband, of course!
At first, he denied everything, then he came up with quite a few reasons why I DROVE him to cheat. BS, all of them.
You are presuming that my husband has cheated on me.
He said, ';U MUST B CRAZY WOMAN TO THINK I'M GONE RISK WHAT WE HAVE!'; I would have been crazy to believe him since I saw him coming out of her upstairs apt.
How should I handle my cheating boyfriend?
I have been dating my bf for about 2 years now. I take care of his bills and he lives with me. I am a beautiful girl but I have grown quite dependent on his love due to a few failed relationships in the past. He has always been so sweet and relentless with me. Two weeks ago he stared cheating on me and just ran off. I have a problem with the fact that I am attracted to the girl he fooled asround weith and it makes me less angry..What should I do?How should I handle my cheating boyfriend?
Ditch him. And forget the girl since she's obviously willing to LET him cheat on you.
Those are not worthwhile qualities in people close to you.
You're better off without them. There are better people out there.How should I handle my cheating boyfriend?
Break up with him.
Plain and simple! Then, hook up with the girl.
Dump him.
You pay his bills %26amp; he cheats on you?!
You deserve better.
Stop paying his bills and kick his cheating a$$ to the curb. Then, just to rub salt in the wound, steal the girl from him. You sound like you have at least decent self-esteem (you describe yourself as beautiful), so there's no reason to be dependent on him. EVERYONE has had failed relationships; it's part of living and loving.
Steal her away from him, then go find a man that can pay his own bills %26amp; would love to have the both of you %26amp; treat you both like queens.
dump his sorry a**. you deserve better than someone who is going to go and cheat on you. and you're probably not as dependant on his love as you think you are. it may be hard to get through something like this once you're so attatched to someone, but really you are stronger than this and there is someone out there that is right for you who will care for you and be good to you and love and be faithful to only you. go ahead and leave this cheating jerk. he doesn't deserve you. you can do it.
i hope for the best for you.
Do what Carrie underwood did. ;)
Before he cheats ;)
Obviously you need to kick him out. And it'd be best to leave the girl alone if she is the one he cheated with. Because if she knew your bf had a girlfriend, then doesn't that mean she'll just cheat on you one day? That is if you are willing to date her.
So you're bi-sexual?
hitting a threesome is just gonna make him think its okay to keep doing it as long as you approve of the girl. im not saying you thought about that but thoughts like that arent too okay ya knoww...a cheater is worthlesss. no matter how much you love him or eachother.....hes never gonna stopp.
Kick him to the curb.
Umm just because you like the girl doesnt mean that he didnt cheat on you. He didnt know that you would like her and he didnt care so i say kill him.
Seriously? It sounds pretty much like he doesn't deserve you! And since you're attracted to the girl he's cheating on you with, that shouldn't make you happier! Does she know that he's with you? Is she a friend or something? Cause if this guy is just cheating on you, then why should you just forget about it cause your attracted to the girl?
Ditch him. And forget the girl since she's obviously willing to LET him cheat on you.
Those are not worthwhile qualities in people close to you.
You're better off without them. There are better people out there.How should I handle my cheating boyfriend?
Break up with him.
Plain and simple! Then, hook up with the girl.
Dump him.
You pay his bills %26amp; he cheats on you?!
You deserve better.
Stop paying his bills and kick his cheating a$$ to the curb. Then, just to rub salt in the wound, steal the girl from him. You sound like you have at least decent self-esteem (you describe yourself as beautiful), so there's no reason to be dependent on him. EVERYONE has had failed relationships; it's part of living and loving.
Steal her away from him, then go find a man that can pay his own bills %26amp; would love to have the both of you %26amp; treat you both like queens.
dump his sorry a**. you deserve better than someone who is going to go and cheat on you. and you're probably not as dependant on his love as you think you are. it may be hard to get through something like this once you're so attatched to someone, but really you are stronger than this and there is someone out there that is right for you who will care for you and be good to you and love and be faithful to only you. go ahead and leave this cheating jerk. he doesn't deserve you. you can do it.
i hope for the best for you.
Do what Carrie underwood did. ;)
Before he cheats ;)
Obviously you need to kick him out. And it'd be best to leave the girl alone if she is the one he cheated with. Because if she knew your bf had a girlfriend, then doesn't that mean she'll just cheat on you one day? That is if you are willing to date her.
So you're bi-sexual?
hitting a threesome is just gonna make him think its okay to keep doing it as long as you approve of the girl. im not saying you thought about that but thoughts like that arent too okay ya knoww...a cheater is worthlesss. no matter how much you love him or eachother.....hes never gonna stopp.
Kick him to the curb.
Umm just because you like the girl doesnt mean that he didnt cheat on you. He didnt know that you would like her and he didnt care so i say kill him.
Seriously? It sounds pretty much like he doesn't deserve you! And since you're attracted to the girl he's cheating on you with, that shouldn't make you happier! Does she know that he's with you? Is she a friend or something? Cause if this guy is just cheating on you, then why should you just forget about it cause your attracted to the girl?
If you were given an assignment to write an oped on cheating would this apply?
I wrote about downloading songs illegally. Do you think that counts as 'Cheating'? In class we talked about how that was a form of cheating but I didn't really say how it was cheating, I mostly talked about how it was messing up the entertainment industry. I think I messed up this assignment, what do you guys think?If you were given an assignment to write an oped on cheating would this apply?
Even though we hate to believe it, downloading songs illegally is a form of cheating. (One clue would be the word ';illegal.';) You are cheating the song writers and the producers out of royalties that they would be getting if you paid for the songs.If you were given an assignment to write an oped on cheating would this apply?
I think if you explained it right that it could be a form of cheating. You could say people are taking the easy way out...they don't have to pay for the music. They also don't have to spend the time or put in the effort to go to the store and look for the album. They are cheating the singer/group out of the money they deserve. Etc.
Even though we hate to believe it, downloading songs illegally is a form of cheating. (One clue would be the word ';illegal.';) You are cheating the song writers and the producers out of royalties that they would be getting if you paid for the songs.If you were given an assignment to write an oped on cheating would this apply?
I think if you explained it right that it could be a form of cheating. You could say people are taking the easy way out...they don't have to pay for the music. They also don't have to spend the time or put in the effort to go to the store and look for the album. They are cheating the singer/group out of the money they deserve. Etc.
What does it mean when you dream of cheating on someone?
I had a dream that I cheated on my boyfriend with some guy who in my dream I couldn't identify. All I remember is thinking to myself how much I liked this guy who I was Cheating with. In my dream we were lying next to eachother talking and I do remember that there was a split second where my boyfriend popped into my head and I felt a pang of guilt. What does all of this mean though? Pease Help.What does it mean when you dream of cheating on someone?
This section is for marriage adn divorce questions. I'm not sure what your looking for here? You had a dream, nobody knows how you think accept you.What does it mean when you dream of cheating on someone?
It means that while you know it would be nice to be with someone else, you know in your heart that it's wrong because you love your boyfriend, or you don't want to hurt him.
Here's a great article about it...
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You're obviously in the wrong place. You had a dream. We all do. Sometimes we dream about running through the streets naked. And that's it. W e don't wake up wondering if we should really do it or not.
It means its only a dream.
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This section is for marriage adn divorce questions. I'm not sure what your looking for here? You had a dream, nobody knows how you think accept you.What does it mean when you dream of cheating on someone?
It means that while you know it would be nice to be with someone else, you know in your heart that it's wrong because you love your boyfriend, or you don't want to hurt him.
Here's a great article about it...
http://www.articlealley.com/article_6812鈥?/a>
You're obviously in the wrong place. You had a dream. We all do. Sometimes we dream about running through the streets naked. And that's it. W e don't wake up wondering if we should really do it or not.
It means its only a dream.
you have been given a chosen one, you just have to find him.
How can you tell if your man is cheating if hes really good at hiding it?
How can you tell if your man is cheating if hes really good at hiding it?
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and why do men refuse to fess up and tell the truth about cheating? why lie about it? men pls help.How can you tell if your man is cheating if hes really good at hiding it?
Well you could hire a private investigator but if my suspicions were high enough that I would consider doing that, I would just save myself some time and money and end the relationship.How can you tell if your man is cheating if hes really good at hiding it?
Maybe you should stop caring about what he's doing and do what you do. Any Man is not going to confess if he's cheating the only way you will now if you catch him yourself.
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and why do men refuse to fess up and tell the truth about cheating? why lie about it? men pls help.How can you tell if your man is cheating if hes really good at hiding it?
Well you could hire a private investigator but if my suspicions were high enough that I would consider doing that, I would just save myself some time and money and end the relationship.How can you tell if your man is cheating if hes really good at hiding it?
Maybe you should stop caring about what he's doing and do what you do. Any Man is not going to confess if he's cheating the only way you will now if you catch him yourself.
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What are some fabled ways to catch Celebi without a glitch or Cheating device?
I'm trying to see how many different ways that a person can apparently catch the mysterious Celebi without any kind of glitch or cheating device?What are some fabled ways to catch Celebi without a glitch or Cheating device?
There are no fabled ways, you fag. :p
There are no fabled ways, you fag. :p
How will cheating in high school affect college?
I am a senior in high school who just got into Cornell University early decision. Once, in my sophomore year, I was caught cheating on a chemistry quiz. I received a conduct report and detention for this, and then vowed never to do it again. However, against my better judgment, I recently got caught again cheating on a French test. My teacher was very kind about it (and I'm etermally grateful to her about that), but told me that unfortunately she had to turn my name in because it was school policy. This time, it will be my 2nd conduct report, and I will probably have to serve detention again. I am not worried about my grade because I'm pretty confident that I'll still end up with a B, and I know that I've made an extremely poor decision TWICE in my high school career. This time however, I am afraid that my punishment will be more severe and my actions may make Cornell second-guess their decision. Please tell me if my chances at college are in jeopardy and give me advice on what to do!How will cheating in high school affect college?
More than likely, your college will never see this record. But stop being stupid and cut it out. If you're caught in college, you will be disciplined or kicked out. Cheaters never win, and winners never cheat.How will cheating in high school affect college?
damn the man. cheat constantly. i did. on everything. as often as possible.
also, i litter all of the time and LOVE it.
I'm not sure if you will get away with it, but remember that cheats only end up cheating themselves. As you have found out, taking the risk does not always pay off.
I noticed that you wrote that you were CAUGHT cheating, but you didnt write that you cheated. Look, do you want to go through life taking the easy way out, or do you want to be a productive member of society? Cornell doesnt want cheaters in their ranks. Why not do Cornell a favor and delay your college until you have made up your mind that cheating on even one test question is unacceptable. Cheating isnt a syndrome, it is a decision. And you can decide right now that taking the easy way out will eventually get you fired from a good paying job. A cheaters life is a losers life and I certainly hope you do not end up another statistic.
Yes they are, because they will read about any wrongdoing just to make sure this kid is legit. Apparently, your past mistakes are now coming back to haunt you.
You wont be allowed in to a college anywere. Good luck
More than likely, your college will never see this record. But stop being stupid and cut it out. If you're caught in college, you will be disciplined or kicked out. Cheaters never win, and winners never cheat.How will cheating in high school affect college?
damn the man. cheat constantly. i did. on everything. as often as possible.
also, i litter all of the time and LOVE it.
I'm not sure if you will get away with it, but remember that cheats only end up cheating themselves. As you have found out, taking the risk does not always pay off.
I noticed that you wrote that you were CAUGHT cheating, but you didnt write that you cheated. Look, do you want to go through life taking the easy way out, or do you want to be a productive member of society? Cornell doesnt want cheaters in their ranks. Why not do Cornell a favor and delay your college until you have made up your mind that cheating on even one test question is unacceptable. Cheating isnt a syndrome, it is a decision. And you can decide right now that taking the easy way out will eventually get you fired from a good paying job. A cheaters life is a losers life and I certainly hope you do not end up another statistic.
Yes they are, because they will read about any wrongdoing just to make sure this kid is legit. Apparently, your past mistakes are now coming back to haunt you.
You wont be allowed in to a college anywere. Good luck
How far can you go until its considered cheating?
i have a gf but i also have alot of friends that are girls. i dont want my gf to think im cheating on her. so what would cheating start at?How far can you go until its considered cheating?
It really depends on her stands on it. Some people just sex is cheating, others think kissing, and there are people who think just fantasizing about someone else is cheating. Talk to her and ask her. Tell her why you're wondering so she doesn't think you're up to something.How far can you go until its considered cheating?
Technically cheating can be considered a lot of things depending on the person you ask. It can be what most of us call cheating when the other person is physical with the opposite sex, i.e, sex, kissing(anywhere), anything sexual in nature. But then there is the more subtle version of cheating in what is commonly referred to as an emotional affair, where the other person is in love with someone else and may or may not be having sex with them. It's almost impossible to have a 100% platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex. At one point or another someone is going to have either sexual or love thoughts of that person and may or may not act on it.
You have a lot of female friends, ask yourself have you ever had any ';thoughts'; of one of them? If it makes you gf uncomfortable to be around other girls, I would try and make some sort of compromise for her if you truly love her or want to keep her around. How would you feel if she hung out with a bunch of dudes or talked to them a lot? Probably a thought you'd rather not have I bet. My best advise is to put yourself in your gf's shoes and ask yourself if you would want that done to you. At that point I think you can gain some perspective on what is and is not cheating based on your relationships dynamics.
if you develop feelings for another girl then you should end it. its not fair to your gf to stay with her if you like someone else. dont hang out with a girl one on one, that is frowned upon. make sure your spending the most time with your gf. dont give her any reason to suspect or distrust you.
If it's anything that you would not be willing to tell her you've done or can't justify and would hurt her feelings, I would consider that cheating. Kissing, sleeping with someone else etc is cheating. Flirting a bit is ok to me.
It really depends on her stands on it. Some people just sex is cheating, others think kissing, and there are people who think just fantasizing about someone else is cheating. Talk to her and ask her. Tell her why you're wondering so she doesn't think you're up to something.How far can you go until its considered cheating?
Technically cheating can be considered a lot of things depending on the person you ask. It can be what most of us call cheating when the other person is physical with the opposite sex, i.e, sex, kissing(anywhere), anything sexual in nature. But then there is the more subtle version of cheating in what is commonly referred to as an emotional affair, where the other person is in love with someone else and may or may not be having sex with them. It's almost impossible to have a 100% platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex. At one point or another someone is going to have either sexual or love thoughts of that person and may or may not act on it.
You have a lot of female friends, ask yourself have you ever had any ';thoughts'; of one of them? If it makes you gf uncomfortable to be around other girls, I would try and make some sort of compromise for her if you truly love her or want to keep her around. How would you feel if she hung out with a bunch of dudes or talked to them a lot? Probably a thought you'd rather not have I bet. My best advise is to put yourself in your gf's shoes and ask yourself if you would want that done to you. At that point I think you can gain some perspective on what is and is not cheating based on your relationships dynamics.
if you develop feelings for another girl then you should end it. its not fair to your gf to stay with her if you like someone else. dont hang out with a girl one on one, that is frowned upon. make sure your spending the most time with your gf. dont give her any reason to suspect or distrust you.
If it's anything that you would not be willing to tell her you've done or can't justify and would hurt her feelings, I would consider that cheating. Kissing, sleeping with someone else etc is cheating. Flirting a bit is ok to me.
How to catch a cheating woman?
I need tips on how you can catch a woman who's cheating without the ';take her on Cheaters or Maury'; suggestions. Urgent.How to catch a cheating woman?
I suppose radio shack has umpteen devices for tracking someone.
I suppose you could have a friend follow her.
You could pay a PI.
I think I would take pause and just say,
';hey, this isn't working for me';.
Proving that someone is cheating is a waste of time.
In a divorce they will get half of everything anyway.
If you are living a life where you are crazy thinking that she is cheating and determined to prove it, it's already over anyway.How to catch a cheating woman?
Ok Im gonna help you. But must do exactly as im gonna say. Are you listening.
Don't let her know you know. Act normal hold your Temperature.Resist confronting her. She will only tell lies and deny everything.This is very very important for the plan to work.
Women are better at this psychological warfare than guys.So do the unexpected say to her ';hows was your day'; as normal but keep cool for the plan to work. You r now taking control of the situation and ultimately the outcome.
She will now get worried knowing you MIGHT know something then start making little mistakes. The torment and guilt gets to her. She will end up confessing everything.
You now have everything. Who,when, rendezvous, times etc. She will be in despair. Now you decide to take her back or get rid.
Take care........and keep cool.
if they are a suspect,they will sometimes lead you to the truth, a diary,probably with names changed,but not hard to figure that out,say you are going out to do something and give them a later time you will be back, opens the door for her to arrange a meeting and see if she leaves the house or has her fling come over! Get a phone recorder and listen to the calls when she is not around,hope you don't have dial up or you will have a lot of nothing.Check the history on the computer to see if she has missed deleting anything, were all prone to make a mistake sometime.don't act like you think something is up until you have proof, could be very bad if you came to the wrong conclusion.she will leave a trail if she is not thinking and will be less cautious if she doesn't think he knows what she is doing.Some spouses don't really care Is it true about the red ball cap and Walmart?**** I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED***
hire a private eye because if u follow her she will see u, or get a buddy to follow her she doesn't know. look into her cell records and see who she;s calling. but who would really want to catch her, its easier just to divorce is u feel your being cheated on.
If you have some extra money hire someone to follow her. Or If you don't have the money you can always take a couple days off work;use vacation or sick time. Act like you are going to work like you would normally; then follow her yourself.
You need to put some more details up. Why do you think she's cheating? What happened? Where do you think she's cheating at? Need details to help
set up a hidden button camera in her car and in your bedroom and on your couch. Otherwise,. hire a private investigator.
I don't even ';catch butterflies'; sweetie.
Check out her panties. Especially if you haven't screwed her. If there are *** stains then........
Smell her body / panty .. they will tell you true story.
run after her with a giant net....
I suppose radio shack has umpteen devices for tracking someone.
I suppose you could have a friend follow her.
You could pay a PI.
I think I would take pause and just say,
';hey, this isn't working for me';.
Proving that someone is cheating is a waste of time.
In a divorce they will get half of everything anyway.
If you are living a life where you are crazy thinking that she is cheating and determined to prove it, it's already over anyway.How to catch a cheating woman?
Ok Im gonna help you. But must do exactly as im gonna say. Are you listening.
Don't let her know you know. Act normal hold your Temperature.Resist confronting her. She will only tell lies and deny everything.This is very very important for the plan to work.
Women are better at this psychological warfare than guys.So do the unexpected say to her ';hows was your day'; as normal but keep cool for the plan to work. You r now taking control of the situation and ultimately the outcome.
She will now get worried knowing you MIGHT know something then start making little mistakes. The torment and guilt gets to her. She will end up confessing everything.
You now have everything. Who,when, rendezvous, times etc. She will be in despair. Now you decide to take her back or get rid.
Take care........and keep cool.
if they are a suspect,they will sometimes lead you to the truth, a diary,probably with names changed,but not hard to figure that out,say you are going out to do something and give them a later time you will be back, opens the door for her to arrange a meeting and see if she leaves the house or has her fling come over! Get a phone recorder and listen to the calls when she is not around,hope you don't have dial up or you will have a lot of nothing.Check the history on the computer to see if she has missed deleting anything, were all prone to make a mistake sometime.don't act like you think something is up until you have proof, could be very bad if you came to the wrong conclusion.she will leave a trail if she is not thinking and will be less cautious if she doesn't think he knows what she is doing.Some spouses don't really care Is it true about the red ball cap and Walmart?**** I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED***
hire a private eye because if u follow her she will see u, or get a buddy to follow her she doesn't know. look into her cell records and see who she;s calling. but who would really want to catch her, its easier just to divorce is u feel your being cheated on.
If you have some extra money hire someone to follow her. Or If you don't have the money you can always take a couple days off work;use vacation or sick time. Act like you are going to work like you would normally; then follow her yourself.
You need to put some more details up. Why do you think she's cheating? What happened? Where do you think she's cheating at? Need details to help
set up a hidden button camera in her car and in your bedroom and on your couch. Otherwise,. hire a private investigator.
I don't even ';catch butterflies'; sweetie.
Check out her panties. Especially if you haven't screwed her. If there are *** stains then........
Smell her body / panty .. they will tell you true story.
run after her with a giant net....
How to catch a cheating woman?
I am wondering what types of behavior to be looking for if someone is cheating. Also seeking what kind of proof to be looking for to indicate something going on and how to catch her in the act.How to catch a cheating woman?
a delay in replies to calls/texts.
picking fights or casting blame on you for things.
hanging up as soon as you enter a room.
newfound loads of overtime at work..How to catch a cheating woman?
First woman are so much better at cheating than we are period. But we all slip. Not to be nasty has the sex changed, is she less sexual, doing new things in the bed room. Not be nasty but does she have a new ';fit';...is she more loose than before...do you seem like your swimming in it when yall have sex. Is she disinterested in your actions, care if you come home or not. Less attentive to your emotional needs. Locking the freaking phone, I hate that, locking the phone, taking in the bathroom, is the ringer off.
Start to use their cell phone in private more. That is how my brother caught his ex-wife cheating. She would lock herself in the bathroom, in the car, etc. One day she left the house in a hurry and left her phone and he found a lot of guys on her contacts page. He called one of the guys and the first thing that guy said was ';when are we going to f*ck again';......boy was he in for a surprise.
If she doesn't talk as much as normal and seems to try and keep busy with other things more than usual when she is around you. If she refuses to let her phone out of her sight, if she argues with literally everything you say but only recently......basically any drastic changes.
Call cheaters.com and be ready to fight the day of the confrontation because your male ego has been bruised and when you think that your wife gave him numerous good times. ( I do not want to be specific)
Hire a private investigator.
You can see it in her eyes.
if she feels like she saw a ghost or something and is very speechless! do no what to do..like she feels she want to disappear or run as fast as she can!
Good luck catching her. Women are SO much better at it than men.
*** stains in her panties.
send her to me, then i'll email you and tell you if we boned or not.myspace games natural hair
a delay in replies to calls/texts.
picking fights or casting blame on you for things.
hanging up as soon as you enter a room.
newfound loads of overtime at work..How to catch a cheating woman?
First woman are so much better at cheating than we are period. But we all slip. Not to be nasty has the sex changed, is she less sexual, doing new things in the bed room. Not be nasty but does she have a new ';fit';...is she more loose than before...do you seem like your swimming in it when yall have sex. Is she disinterested in your actions, care if you come home or not. Less attentive to your emotional needs. Locking the freaking phone, I hate that, locking the phone, taking in the bathroom, is the ringer off.
Start to use their cell phone in private more. That is how my brother caught his ex-wife cheating. She would lock herself in the bathroom, in the car, etc. One day she left the house in a hurry and left her phone and he found a lot of guys on her contacts page. He called one of the guys and the first thing that guy said was ';when are we going to f*ck again';......boy was he in for a surprise.
If she doesn't talk as much as normal and seems to try and keep busy with other things more than usual when she is around you. If she refuses to let her phone out of her sight, if she argues with literally everything you say but only recently......basically any drastic changes.
Call cheaters.com and be ready to fight the day of the confrontation because your male ego has been bruised and when you think that your wife gave him numerous good times. ( I do not want to be specific)
Hire a private investigator.
You can see it in her eyes.
if she feels like she saw a ghost or something and is very speechless! do no what to do..like she feels she want to disappear or run as fast as she can!
Good luck catching her. Women are SO much better at it than men.
*** stains in her panties.
send her to me, then i'll email you and tell you if we boned or not.
How do i prevent my bf from cheating?
My boyfriend of 4 years has never cheated but i'm afraid he might because a lot of guys do. What can i do now to prevent him from cheating now or in the future?How do i prevent my bf from cheating?
just because alot of guys do, doesnt mean he will. if you've been together that long, i wouldnt worry too much about it. just keep doing what you've been doing %26amp; everything should be fine!How do i prevent my bf from cheating?
Nothing, but if you're thinking he will because ';a lot of guys do'; you shouldn't be in a relationship.
He's not a lot of guys, he's one guy, and that's what you should be judging him on, himself, his own actions.
He could be saying the same about you, because a lot of women cheat.
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years too. The best advice I've gotten so far (and it seems to be working) is to make sure your boyfriend feels important and confident around you. Thank him for the little things and most importantly make sure he knows your interestead in him and what he does and likes. (even if you arn't) the number one reason why guys cheat is not for sex.. it's because some other girl is making your boyfriend feel good about himself... ya know? And 90% of the time she's not as cute as you.. she's just giving him what he craves. I hope this helps - good luck!!! =)
Always have good comunication, spend quality time together. Always have plans to do something so you guys will have something to look forwards to, you know, stay busy. And try your very best to show that you love him...
Keep him happy in bed!!!!!!!!!!
just because alot of guys do, doesnt mean he will. if you've been together that long, i wouldnt worry too much about it. just keep doing what you've been doing %26amp; everything should be fine!How do i prevent my bf from cheating?
Nothing, but if you're thinking he will because ';a lot of guys do'; you shouldn't be in a relationship.
He's not a lot of guys, he's one guy, and that's what you should be judging him on, himself, his own actions.
He could be saying the same about you, because a lot of women cheat.
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years too. The best advice I've gotten so far (and it seems to be working) is to make sure your boyfriend feels important and confident around you. Thank him for the little things and most importantly make sure he knows your interestead in him and what he does and likes. (even if you arn't) the number one reason why guys cheat is not for sex.. it's because some other girl is making your boyfriend feel good about himself... ya know? And 90% of the time she's not as cute as you.. she's just giving him what he craves. I hope this helps - good luck!!! =)
Always have good comunication, spend quality time together. Always have plans to do something so you guys will have something to look forwards to, you know, stay busy. And try your very best to show that you love him...
Keep him happy in bed!!!!!!!!!!
How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
I suspect my husband is cheating he is being very stinky lately. Like he don't like me getting on his computer and when he deletes something from his computer he makes sure its out of the recycle bin
and he used to call me when I am at work at night now he don't and when I call him he says hes busy. But when I go home in the morning nothing around the house is done.How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
You need to call him out on this behavior. He most likely is, or looking at porn a lot. If he gets defensive and denies it then you know he is cheating. Whatever he is doing, figure it out and make a decision whether to stay or leave. Its never good to be blind in your relationship.How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
You can either sneak around and find the information out for yourself, or you can talk to him and ask him to come clean if he is. Sometimes communication is the best way to go, it clears up a lot of insecurity issues between both parties.
I think you know he is. the question now is what are you going to do? Often we have an innate sense that lets us know and it tends to be right. If you truly are unsure, talking to him calmly should work. Asking why he deletes things if he has nothing to hide should help. communication is key--do not accuse just ask.
Look listen snoop, look for recites, watch mileage on car, restore the recycle bin, check history through your power desk, check phone in/out calls, check his cloths, when you find what you think you need talk to him.
Unless you catch him, you won't know.
My question is why do you want on his computer? Why do you want to see what's in the recycle bin? You must already suspect he is up to something or you wouldn't be getting nosy in the first place.
Try these
- Put a hidden cam at home
- Ask your most reliable friend to keep watch
- Give sudden visit home(say with your headache, you could not be in the office)
- See his bills / cash flow
- Ask him to join for dinner / lunch at your office
It definitely sounds suspicious. Get a program called cybersitter keyboard monitor. It operates secretly in the background and you can see what he is typing. I think he is up to no good.
Sit down and trash things out with him.
Let him know what's on your mind and
that you wish to work things out with him.
No point wasting time guessing.
Ask him.
If you're not a dumb person,
you'll find out someday.
Just do it discreetly.
Get a spying agent to spy on him.
well you know he is you got that feeling then that is what going on why else for a sudden change
Hire a P.I. to do your dirty work, that way you don't get caught up.
and he used to call me when I am at work at night now he don't and when I call him he says hes busy. But when I go home in the morning nothing around the house is done.How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
You need to call him out on this behavior. He most likely is, or looking at porn a lot. If he gets defensive and denies it then you know he is cheating. Whatever he is doing, figure it out and make a decision whether to stay or leave. Its never good to be blind in your relationship.How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
You can either sneak around and find the information out for yourself, or you can talk to him and ask him to come clean if he is. Sometimes communication is the best way to go, it clears up a lot of insecurity issues between both parties.
I think you know he is. the question now is what are you going to do? Often we have an innate sense that lets us know and it tends to be right. If you truly are unsure, talking to him calmly should work. Asking why he deletes things if he has nothing to hide should help. communication is key--do not accuse just ask.
Look listen snoop, look for recites, watch mileage on car, restore the recycle bin, check history through your power desk, check phone in/out calls, check his cloths, when you find what you think you need talk to him.
Unless you catch him, you won't know.
My question is why do you want on his computer? Why do you want to see what's in the recycle bin? You must already suspect he is up to something or you wouldn't be getting nosy in the first place.
Try these
- Put a hidden cam at home
- Ask your most reliable friend to keep watch
- Give sudden visit home(say with your headache, you could not be in the office)
- See his bills / cash flow
- Ask him to join for dinner / lunch at your office
It definitely sounds suspicious. Get a program called cybersitter keyboard monitor. It operates secretly in the background and you can see what he is typing. I think he is up to no good.
Sit down and trash things out with him.
Let him know what's on your mind and
that you wish to work things out with him.
No point wasting time guessing.
Ask him.
If you're not a dumb person,
you'll find out someday.
Just do it discreetly.
Get a spying agent to spy on him.
well you know he is you got that feeling then that is what going on why else for a sudden change
Hire a P.I. to do your dirty work, that way you don't get caught up.
How would I tell my friend that she is cheating?
My friend is cheating on her husband. She ran off from her husband(abusive/domestic violence) and came with this guy to this country(where I'm also staying. I met her here). This guy now receives secret sms, which he never intends to show my friend. He deletes it as soon as he reads it.
Is he cheating on her? They are constantly fighting for this matter. I wanted to tell her, she is cheating her husband. But how would I put it in a more comfortable way?How would I tell my friend that she is cheating?
What makes it tough is the emotional ties you have with friend, knowing your friend is doing wrong in one way, yet knowing she's attempting to re-cover and find semblance of sanity in life of love, so it's tough. For both of you. You care. She wants to care. Different levels of seeing things.
If thinking you still know who your friend is--and she trusts you; which you'll have to gently find out by re-calling ol'times between you--as one given example--then listen to why she's doing it..You may cry as much as she will.
About the guy she's seeing, is he cheating on her---sounds likely--and how you know this means you're up pretty close to both of them, yes?
So you're deeply involved and want rectifying this mess before it buries all of you. You have a conscience.
Sometimes, as you know, friends have to go separate ways for a while, some friendships need much space/time/further experience to see what counts and what doesn't..You may need doing this unless you need your friend's emotional (and otherwise) support. And some friendship's never can return 'the way it was,' or not at all which may be a good thing, okay?
You've much deciding pending in your life, only wanting to make things better--at least for your friend and friendship between you, yes?
Tell her with caring love you have for her as a friend---showing that concern in a setting of both of you with time and away from pulic ears, perhaps a day's drive, a park setting, something where familiar ears aren't imposed by what you communicate.
Be her sister, because it seems you value your friendship, you seem having firm moral standards and a heart that can only hold so much before it begin screaming at you.
m.How would I tell my friend that she is cheating?
You need to stay out of it. It is not your job to be your friend's conscience. She's a big girl, and she'll figure things out on her own. If you get involved, she may not appreciate your intervention in her life and may wind up resenting you in the end.
You have good intentions, but remember: the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Signs are 99.9% that he is cheating. Ask her a very simple question: remember the Golden Rule: treat people the way you want to be treated. Why would you want to cheat on someone but you don't want to be cheated on?
There are some things which we should never get involved with in our friendships without them specifically asking our views.
Their marriage
Their business
Their religion
To step into any of these areas without an invitation is to tread where angels fear to go.
I don't understand, which is the one who is cheating? Why would you have to let someone know they are cheating? Wouldn't they already be aware of that? I'm confused.
M.Y.O.B. But be there if your friend needs you.
I agree with Thomas.
ya she is cheating.....
Is he cheating on her? They are constantly fighting for this matter. I wanted to tell her, she is cheating her husband. But how would I put it in a more comfortable way?How would I tell my friend that she is cheating?
What makes it tough is the emotional ties you have with friend, knowing your friend is doing wrong in one way, yet knowing she's attempting to re-cover and find semblance of sanity in life of love, so it's tough. For both of you. You care. She wants to care. Different levels of seeing things.
If thinking you still know who your friend is--and she trusts you; which you'll have to gently find out by re-calling ol'times between you--as one given example--then listen to why she's doing it..You may cry as much as she will.
About the guy she's seeing, is he cheating on her---sounds likely--and how you know this means you're up pretty close to both of them, yes?
So you're deeply involved and want rectifying this mess before it buries all of you. You have a conscience.
Sometimes, as you know, friends have to go separate ways for a while, some friendships need much space/time/further experience to see what counts and what doesn't..You may need doing this unless you need your friend's emotional (and otherwise) support. And some friendship's never can return 'the way it was,' or not at all which may be a good thing, okay?
You've much deciding pending in your life, only wanting to make things better--at least for your friend and friendship between you, yes?
Tell her with caring love you have for her as a friend---showing that concern in a setting of both of you with time and away from pulic ears, perhaps a day's drive, a park setting, something where familiar ears aren't imposed by what you communicate.
Be her sister, because it seems you value your friendship, you seem having firm moral standards and a heart that can only hold so much before it begin screaming at you.
m.How would I tell my friend that she is cheating?
You need to stay out of it. It is not your job to be your friend's conscience. She's a big girl, and she'll figure things out on her own. If you get involved, she may not appreciate your intervention in her life and may wind up resenting you in the end.
You have good intentions, but remember: the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Signs are 99.9% that he is cheating. Ask her a very simple question: remember the Golden Rule: treat people the way you want to be treated. Why would you want to cheat on someone but you don't want to be cheated on?
There are some things which we should never get involved with in our friendships without them specifically asking our views.
Their marriage
Their business
Their religion
To step into any of these areas without an invitation is to tread where angels fear to go.
I don't understand, which is the one who is cheating? Why would you have to let someone know they are cheating? Wouldn't they already be aware of that? I'm confused.
M.Y.O.B. But be there if your friend needs you.
I agree with Thomas.
ya she is cheating.....
How do I work out 'cheating issues' with my ex?
So I confessed to my 'now ex girlfriend' that I cheated on her a month ago. We are still friends now and talk everyday, but every now and then, she breaks down or gets angry and brings up my past, questions about me cheating...I really love her, so how should I deal with this when she brings it up?How do I work out 'cheating issues' with my ex?
She may never get over what u did, once u break that TRUST in a relationship, u have NOTHING, at the same time, I dont think it is fair she keeps bringing up the past.
Leave the past alone, if all it is going to do is cuz more heartache. this u should suggest to her.
Give it time, she needs to heal her broken heart. You are lucky she is still even your friend.
Take care,
ROCK ANGELHow do I work out 'cheating issues' with my ex?
Well...maybe some time apart with no communication would help. Of course, it wasn't fair for you to cheat, but by the same token, it is not fair for you to have to answer questions about it everyday. The only thing that is going to heal this situation is time and patience, that's if it is worth saving!
Simple, Don't cheat again, even if a sexy lady is standing butt naked in your doorway begging you to...
I'll leave the rest to your imagination.
She may never get over what u did, once u break that TRUST in a relationship, u have NOTHING, at the same time, I dont think it is fair she keeps bringing up the past.
Leave the past alone, if all it is going to do is cuz more heartache. this u should suggest to her.
Give it time, she needs to heal her broken heart. You are lucky she is still even your friend.
Take care,
ROCK ANGELHow do I work out 'cheating issues' with my ex?
Well...maybe some time apart with no communication would help. Of course, it wasn't fair for you to cheat, but by the same token, it is not fair for you to have to answer questions about it everyday. The only thing that is going to heal this situation is time and patience, that's if it is worth saving!
Simple, Don't cheat again, even if a sexy lady is standing butt naked in your doorway begging you to...
I'll leave the rest to your imagination.
How many Best Answers do you have to give another user for it to be classed as cheating?
Me and my friend give eachother best answer a lot on here.
I was wondering how many best answers do I have to give her for it to be classed as cheating? I'm a bit confused.
Thanks in advance.How many Best Answers do you have to give another user for it to be classed as cheating?
Five in a row
The thing is if the Y!A staff see that you and her swap answers all the time, you could both get deleted.
If you are able to spread it out so it is not obvious, you might fly under the radarHow many Best Answers do you have to give another user for it to be classed as cheating?
I don't think they could accuse you of cheating.. how would they prove that you didn't really think her answer on each question was the best..? Sure it's a bit ratty, but if you genuinely think her answers are great then why not?? It's not exactly playing fair if you just give her the BA because she's your friend, but nothings going to happen.
3 or more is considered cheating. You have now made yourself and your friend targets for trolls.
I was wondering how many best answers do I have to give her for it to be classed as cheating? I'm a bit confused.
Thanks in advance.How many Best Answers do you have to give another user for it to be classed as cheating?
Five in a row
The thing is if the Y!A staff see that you and her swap answers all the time, you could both get deleted.
If you are able to spread it out so it is not obvious, you might fly under the radarHow many Best Answers do you have to give another user for it to be classed as cheating?
I don't think they could accuse you of cheating.. how would they prove that you didn't really think her answer on each question was the best..? Sure it's a bit ratty, but if you genuinely think her answers are great then why not?? It's not exactly playing fair if you just give her the BA because she's your friend, but nothings going to happen.
3 or more is considered cheating. You have now made yourself and your friend targets for trolls.
How can I find out if my boyfriend is cheating, without getting on his account, or asking him?
I'm not sure that I can believe him when he tells me that he's not cheating. Because one time he told me that he wasn't flirting around, and I caught him in public, and on facebook. It bothered me because he promised that he wasn't doing it, and that he wouldn't do it ever again. I don't know whether to believe him or not. What should I do.How can I find out if my boyfriend is cheating, without getting on his account, or asking him?
Look for these red flags
Usually, the thing that will tip you off to catch a man cheating is a change in behavior.
So, let's look at just a few of the behaviors that you might observe, if you catch a man cheating
Catch a man cheating look for Behavior At Home:
¨ Appears distant, show a lack of interest or develop an unexplained aloofness
¨ Is frequently tired or lack interest in the relationship
¨Comes home smelling of an unfamiliar fragrance
¨Wears cologne much more often than usual
¨Arrives home and heads straight into the shower/bath
¨Gets dressed up a little too well (to) for trips to the grocery or running some other kind of errand
¨Begins to speak more and more harshly to you, or are more sarcastic. Sometimes this is just an attempt to justify their cheating or to give them an excuse to storm out of the room/house
Finding credit card receipts for gifts you didn't receive.
¨An increase in ATM withdrawals.
¨Credit card receipts showing purchases from places that unknown to you or seem suspect
¨He rushes to get the mail before you do.
¨Unusual phone numbers appear on the bill.
¨The duration and time of the calls appear excessive.
¨He are secretive about their cell phone bill.
¨He starts to pay the phone bills or credit card bills themselves.How can I find out if my boyfriend is cheating, without getting on his account, or asking him?
alright! time to work my actor magic! give me his facebook account, i'll find out for ya. and then if he's doing something nasty, i'll tell you, and you can say that one of the girls he was flirting with emailed you and told you. i can impersonate 3 people at a time if needed. what do you say? it'll be fun! well, unless he is cheating on you, and then, well, it wouldnt be very fun for you....but even so, what do ya say?
There's no way of knowing for sure if he's cheating on you or not, unless you literally catch him in the act. If you're asking him, and you feel he is lying to you, then you should break up with him. A relationship should be about trust, and you obviously have some doubts.
there r times wen u dont believe ur boyfriend cuz i wuz in tha same position.i didnt believe him %26amp; i lost him.but i still luv him %26amp; hes wit sum1 else...but tha best thing 2 do iz jus watch him %26amp; ask friends 2 watch out %26amp; c if he really iz cheating.
good luck:)
RTF.PLZ
hire a spy=] lol
or get a friend to spy on him.
just ask him. nd if u dnt trust him enough to believe his answers then what r u doing with him??
if hes lied to u before maybe hes going to lie in the future also!!??!?!?!?!
you should try to spy n him now normally wouldn't say that but chances are honey if he has lied to you once then he is probably still lieing to you.
if you don't trust your boyfriend, whats the point in being with him. Your constantly going to be paranoid..and i'm afraid it doesn't go away :L
Sure fire way, talk with one of his friends that you know has a crush on you, then take him out for the evening! Normally they will spill!
i think that you should NOY LISTEN TO WHAT THAT KID SAID and he should be honest
but what you could do is when he says he is going somewhere follow him and see
Poke around him. Let him know how great of a boyfriend he is. Maybe he'll crack.
Smell his D*** when he comes home.
you shouldnt be with him if you dont trust him
stalk him
Men will lie about this. Mainly they lie because they are are afraid to tell you because of your reaction and consequences.
Sadly, I had a similar problem. Check is call log history on his cell phone discretely, check your phone bill for any unknown numbers to you and at what time they were made, I broke into his e-mail account and found the prove and not only that but he talked about our relationship problems and all our 'intimate' details etc, the stuff only we're supposed to know.
At the time I felt bad about betraying his trust and snooping, it was when I found the calls to her number on the cell that I broke into the e-mail (and only cos I found her e-mail addy in his pants pocket). It shed the light on the truth, and now I don't care what people think I think it was rightly justified.
You could try spyware as well. To get into e-mail without knowing the password try and answer the security question. Reset the password and wwhen he logs in next he'll just answer the same question and reset it again.
EDIT: I agree with ancient, I did that once and asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. He kept flirting with me (not knowing it was me). That is a good way to see if he is either flirting which he promised he wouldnt and ttry see if he hook-up with the ';girl';.... lolmyspace games natural hair
Look for these red flags
Usually, the thing that will tip you off to catch a man cheating is a change in behavior.
So, let's look at just a few of the behaviors that you might observe, if you catch a man cheating
Catch a man cheating look for Behavior At Home:
¨ Appears distant, show a lack of interest or develop an unexplained aloofness
¨ Is frequently tired or lack interest in the relationship
¨Comes home smelling of an unfamiliar fragrance
¨Wears cologne much more often than usual
¨Arrives home and heads straight into the shower/bath
¨Gets dressed up a little too well (to) for trips to the grocery or running some other kind of errand
¨Begins to speak more and more harshly to you, or are more sarcastic. Sometimes this is just an attempt to justify their cheating or to give them an excuse to storm out of the room/house
Finding credit card receipts for gifts you didn't receive.
¨An increase in ATM withdrawals.
¨Credit card receipts showing purchases from places that unknown to you or seem suspect
¨He rushes to get the mail before you do.
¨Unusual phone numbers appear on the bill.
¨The duration and time of the calls appear excessive.
¨He are secretive about their cell phone bill.
¨He starts to pay the phone bills or credit card bills themselves.How can I find out if my boyfriend is cheating, without getting on his account, or asking him?
alright! time to work my actor magic! give me his facebook account, i'll find out for ya. and then if he's doing something nasty, i'll tell you, and you can say that one of the girls he was flirting with emailed you and told you. i can impersonate 3 people at a time if needed. what do you say? it'll be fun! well, unless he is cheating on you, and then, well, it wouldnt be very fun for you....but even so, what do ya say?
There's no way of knowing for sure if he's cheating on you or not, unless you literally catch him in the act. If you're asking him, and you feel he is lying to you, then you should break up with him. A relationship should be about trust, and you obviously have some doubts.
there r times wen u dont believe ur boyfriend cuz i wuz in tha same position.i didnt believe him %26amp; i lost him.but i still luv him %26amp; hes wit sum1 else...but tha best thing 2 do iz jus watch him %26amp; ask friends 2 watch out %26amp; c if he really iz cheating.
good luck:)
RTF.PLZ
hire a spy=] lol
or get a friend to spy on him.
just ask him. nd if u dnt trust him enough to believe his answers then what r u doing with him??
if hes lied to u before maybe hes going to lie in the future also!!??!?!?!?!
you should try to spy n him now normally wouldn't say that but chances are honey if he has lied to you once then he is probably still lieing to you.
if you don't trust your boyfriend, whats the point in being with him. Your constantly going to be paranoid..and i'm afraid it doesn't go away :L
Sure fire way, talk with one of his friends that you know has a crush on you, then take him out for the evening! Normally they will spill!
i think that you should NOY LISTEN TO WHAT THAT KID SAID and he should be honest
but what you could do is when he says he is going somewhere follow him and see
Poke around him. Let him know how great of a boyfriend he is. Maybe he'll crack.
Smell his D*** when he comes home.
you shouldnt be with him if you dont trust him
stalk him
Men will lie about this. Mainly they lie because they are are afraid to tell you because of your reaction and consequences.
Sadly, I had a similar problem. Check is call log history on his cell phone discretely, check your phone bill for any unknown numbers to you and at what time they were made, I broke into his e-mail account and found the prove and not only that but he talked about our relationship problems and all our 'intimate' details etc, the stuff only we're supposed to know.
At the time I felt bad about betraying his trust and snooping, it was when I found the calls to her number on the cell that I broke into the e-mail (and only cos I found her e-mail addy in his pants pocket). It shed the light on the truth, and now I don't care what people think I think it was rightly justified.
You could try spyware as well. To get into e-mail without knowing the password try and answer the security question. Reset the password and wwhen he logs in next he'll just answer the same question and reset it again.
EDIT: I agree with ancient, I did that once and asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. He kept flirting with me (not knowing it was me). That is a good way to see if he is either flirting which he promised he wouldnt and ttry see if he hook-up with the ';girl';.... lol
How can I tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
I am a 10 year old girl and I'm not sure if my boyfriend is cheating on me or not. He is going up to high school soon and I will still be in primary. I won't see him for a year. So I really need some help in finding out what he's up to.How can I tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
If you really are a ten year old girl then you need to get a grip and go back to playing with dolls, skipping ropes or whatever 10 a year old is supposed to do. You are far too young to be in a relationship with any boy, no matter how young. You will be mucking up your head and therefore your education and long term future - there will be plenty of time for boyfriends when you have an education. Please speak to your Mum, she will have been through similar experiences but probably when she was much older then 10.How can I tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
What is people's problem with infantasizing girls?? She's not too young to have a boyfriend, just a little young to be taking them so seriously.
You wont see him for a year? I think your a bit young to be honest. Be a proper child, boys are meant to smell at your age.
ur too young
plus hes going away to high school he gunna want a high school girl
at one point
so i dnt see much hope for u and him when he goes away
omg ur too young to have a bf..!!
yeah cause a 10 year old knows what an apostrophe is c'mon!
If you really are a ten year old girl then you need to get a grip and go back to playing with dolls, skipping ropes or whatever 10 a year old is supposed to do. You are far too young to be in a relationship with any boy, no matter how young. You will be mucking up your head and therefore your education and long term future - there will be plenty of time for boyfriends when you have an education. Please speak to your Mum, she will have been through similar experiences but probably when she was much older then 10.How can I tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
What is people's problem with infantasizing girls?? She's not too young to have a boyfriend, just a little young to be taking them so seriously.
You wont see him for a year? I think your a bit young to be honest. Be a proper child, boys are meant to smell at your age.
ur too young
plus hes going away to high school he gunna want a high school girl
at one point
so i dnt see much hope for u and him when he goes away
omg ur too young to have a bf..!!
yeah cause a 10 year old knows what an apostrophe is c'mon!
How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
I would like to know if my boyfriend is cheating on me.We have been dating since December last year and we just dont communicate as much as we did.We can communicate like after 3 days of silence and we see each other after weeks sometimes.How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
have you caught him having sex with another female? He's cheating on you then.How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
Well, maybe both of you are getting bored, and you don't want to let go? But you should, or at-least try talking. I know the only answer people ever have is ';talking always helps'; and you know what? It does.Try talking to him, if he seems reluctant to talk, then there's something really wrong. And when you said '; We can communicate like after 3 days of silence'; that should also be another issue, becasue without completely missing eachother both of you are just fine without seeing each other. you should be able to see him all the time or make an effort to. Maybe he's not cheating, he's just getting bored. Just talk to him, and if you need anymore help, you can always e-mail me. (juicebella@yahoo.com) Im always ready to answer your questions(: Good Luck!
You barely talk and you don't see each other for weeks. It's over so realize that, make a clean break, and move on.
Don't worry, I'm a spy I can help you..
maybe ur relationship is dying and he is getting bored or u are getting bored do something exciting
there is the answer right there. its done over and if yu dont' trust him there is no real love attached to it just move on and leave him its worth it to have your sanity together.
Stalk him. Observe and investigate.
have you caught him having sex with another female? He's cheating on you then.How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
Well, maybe both of you are getting bored, and you don't want to let go? But you should, or at-least try talking. I know the only answer people ever have is ';talking always helps'; and you know what? It does.Try talking to him, if he seems reluctant to talk, then there's something really wrong. And when you said '; We can communicate like after 3 days of silence'; that should also be another issue, becasue without completely missing eachother both of you are just fine without seeing each other. you should be able to see him all the time or make an effort to. Maybe he's not cheating, he's just getting bored. Just talk to him, and if you need anymore help, you can always e-mail me. (juicebella@yahoo.com) Im always ready to answer your questions(: Good Luck!
You barely talk and you don't see each other for weeks. It's over so realize that, make a clean break, and move on.
Don't worry, I'm a spy I can help you..
maybe ur relationship is dying and he is getting bored or u are getting bored do something exciting
there is the answer right there. its done over and if yu dont' trust him there is no real love attached to it just move on and leave him its worth it to have your sanity together.
Stalk him. Observe and investigate.
How do you know when a man is cheating on you?
FADING PICTURE
I feel as if im a fading picture
I used to be bright, vibrant and full of color
But the thought of him being with another
Is strippimg away my every beautiful colour
Is he cheating on me with a significant other?
Thoughts like that causes me to fade away
Just to be alone
I find darkness to hide behind in the brightness of day
Its beginning to feel like torture everyday
I cant wait to get this situation resolved on Saturday.How do you know when a man is cheating on you?
ask him and look him in the eyes if he breaks contact then he's cheatinHow do you know when a man is cheating on you?
That's really good!
Is this an improved verson of the one you posted earlier?
If it is then it's a lot better!
Check mine out please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
I feel as if im a fading picture
I used to be bright, vibrant and full of color
But the thought of him being with another
Is strippimg away my every beautiful colour
Is he cheating on me with a significant other?
Thoughts like that causes me to fade away
Just to be alone
I find darkness to hide behind in the brightness of day
Its beginning to feel like torture everyday
I cant wait to get this situation resolved on Saturday.How do you know when a man is cheating on you?
ask him and look him in the eyes if he breaks contact then he's cheatinHow do you know when a man is cheating on you?
That's really good!
Is this an improved verson of the one you posted earlier?
If it is then it's a lot better!
Check mine out please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
How do you know when kids father is cheating?
How do you know if the father of your kids is cheating you when he lives in another city ad says he wants to be with us where we live but keeps going back to another city and saying he has know where else to go and he stays with a female?How do you know when kids father is cheating?
first of all why does he lived in another city? If he really want to be with you and his kids, what keeping him from moving there? or you and the kids move where he is?
I really don't know him but if he not serious about being with you and his kids. mostly likely that he is seeing someone else.How do you know when kids father is cheating?
smell his d!ck the next time you see him.
first of all why does he lived in another city? If he really want to be with you and his kids, what keeping him from moving there? or you and the kids move where he is?
I really don't know him but if he not serious about being with you and his kids. mostly likely that he is seeing someone else.How do you know when kids father is cheating?
smell his d!ck the next time you see him.
How do people not know their spouse is cheating?
I never understood how can someone not know a person is cheating? How is it you just didn't have a clue? I am not being rude I am just curious honestly. Thanks
Especially if you are married and have kids it would seem that you have responsibilities and how are people able to hide this?How do people not know their spouse is cheating?
It's not that we don't have a clue, it's just that it's very hard to believe that something like this will happen to you. You make excuses as to why things just are not getting resolved in the argument department. Seems like when you say that they are hanging on to something so trivial for so long that they apologise, but, before yoju can kiss and make up, they take offence to yet another trivial problem. Or start pointing how different you two are in different areas. My ex was sending all the signals but since she was a Bible school graduate and a devote Christian woman, (maybe not too devote) I just thought maybe I was a being a poor husband and she just wasn't getting my best. Then the ';we just have so many differences'; statement popped up and the light went on. I just blurted out....so, how long has this affair you're having gone on? She packed her stuff up and went to go live with her sister. The culprete ended up being some Missionary that she worked for. This guy was engaged to be married (again, late wife died). And he did get married to someone else. My ex lost the kids, her respect, her faith in God, and her husbands trust.
You see there are some of us guys still out there that believe that marriage is for life! Unless of course the woman cheats. Then we get a free get outta marriage card from the church. Best move I've ever made. Been married after that for 22 years. Ex is constantly telling our sons how horrible her marriage is. They know though. She just doesn't want to ';belong'; to anyone. Considers it a form of slavery.How do people not know their spouse is cheating?
Mine never actually cheated in the physical sense, that I know of, but emotionally did several times. I had no clue for many many years and would have never found out if a slip of the tongue hadn't sent me searching. Why didn't I know? Here's a list;
She was always acting super jealous and criticizing my every possible transgression, even to the point of covering my eyes during the R ratted part of the movie. When someone seems so anti cheating so entrenched in a rule then you tend to assume that they're not violating the rule themselves.
She was always playing the religion card and insinuating that she was the holy person because she read her bible %26amp; prayed every day and always went to church and I was the heathen. When someone is all wrapped up in their religion and guilt you sort of assume that they would never commit what they consider to be some mortal sin.
While she was always sexually receptive, she always made it known that she wasn't really interested in sex and was mostly doing it for me. She wasn't that blunt about it but that was the attitude she put out. When somebody doesn't seem to care much about something you don't really tend to suspect them of being willing to risk everything to get some of it.
So even obvious warning signs of things I dismissed as nonsense because the thought of her being any less than perfectly innocent in all things just never crosed my mind. People can wear masks very convincingly. Very, very convincingly.
When my soon-to-be-ex was cheating on me, I KNEW. Something just didn't just seem right. I didn't take it laying down. I went through his stuff and found evidence. It took a few months of this before by chance, I talked to his girlfriend, and sure enough everything was confirmed. Lucky for me this guy was a creep anyway. This was the last straw, and I was more than glad to finally put that relationship to an end. Knowing the truth was quite redeeming.
I think something would not seem ';right';. But be careful, because jealousy and insecurity can lead a person to believe a person is being unfaithful when they are not.
My husband says there are always clues and the spouse was not looking .
but when it happened to me he was with a hooker( and i am the one willing to do anything and wants it everynight) i would of never known but he left his email open and he had an appontment with a person who her email address was very sexy . It happened while i was working during the day so he was always home when i was , did not act differently at all. I am trying so hard to stay together as i love and like him enjoy his company and it would devestate our sons who are 17 and 21
I believe you can miss the signs if you are not paying attention:
1.If you are too busy with kids, work, etc.
2. you don't care enough about the person and don't have much of a relationship to notice the change of behavior or pattern.
The point of cheating is that it go undetected !!
Unfortunately people get caught !!
Or fortunately get caught somewhere down the line !!
Some people are just in denial and turn a blind eye. Sad, but true. I sure as hell wouldn't!
Especially if you are married and have kids it would seem that you have responsibilities and how are people able to hide this?How do people not know their spouse is cheating?
It's not that we don't have a clue, it's just that it's very hard to believe that something like this will happen to you. You make excuses as to why things just are not getting resolved in the argument department. Seems like when you say that they are hanging on to something so trivial for so long that they apologise, but, before yoju can kiss and make up, they take offence to yet another trivial problem. Or start pointing how different you two are in different areas. My ex was sending all the signals but since she was a Bible school graduate and a devote Christian woman, (maybe not too devote) I just thought maybe I was a being a poor husband and she just wasn't getting my best. Then the ';we just have so many differences'; statement popped up and the light went on. I just blurted out....so, how long has this affair you're having gone on? She packed her stuff up and went to go live with her sister. The culprete ended up being some Missionary that she worked for. This guy was engaged to be married (again, late wife died). And he did get married to someone else. My ex lost the kids, her respect, her faith in God, and her husbands trust.
You see there are some of us guys still out there that believe that marriage is for life! Unless of course the woman cheats. Then we get a free get outta marriage card from the church. Best move I've ever made. Been married after that for 22 years. Ex is constantly telling our sons how horrible her marriage is. They know though. She just doesn't want to ';belong'; to anyone. Considers it a form of slavery.How do people not know their spouse is cheating?
Mine never actually cheated in the physical sense, that I know of, but emotionally did several times. I had no clue for many many years and would have never found out if a slip of the tongue hadn't sent me searching. Why didn't I know? Here's a list;
She was always acting super jealous and criticizing my every possible transgression, even to the point of covering my eyes during the R ratted part of the movie. When someone seems so anti cheating so entrenched in a rule then you tend to assume that they're not violating the rule themselves.
She was always playing the religion card and insinuating that she was the holy person because she read her bible %26amp; prayed every day and always went to church and I was the heathen. When someone is all wrapped up in their religion and guilt you sort of assume that they would never commit what they consider to be some mortal sin.
While she was always sexually receptive, she always made it known that she wasn't really interested in sex and was mostly doing it for me. She wasn't that blunt about it but that was the attitude she put out. When somebody doesn't seem to care much about something you don't really tend to suspect them of being willing to risk everything to get some of it.
So even obvious warning signs of things I dismissed as nonsense because the thought of her being any less than perfectly innocent in all things just never crosed my mind. People can wear masks very convincingly. Very, very convincingly.
When my soon-to-be-ex was cheating on me, I KNEW. Something just didn't just seem right. I didn't take it laying down. I went through his stuff and found evidence. It took a few months of this before by chance, I talked to his girlfriend, and sure enough everything was confirmed. Lucky for me this guy was a creep anyway. This was the last straw, and I was more than glad to finally put that relationship to an end. Knowing the truth was quite redeeming.
I think something would not seem ';right';. But be careful, because jealousy and insecurity can lead a person to believe a person is being unfaithful when they are not.
My husband says there are always clues and the spouse was not looking .
but when it happened to me he was with a hooker( and i am the one willing to do anything and wants it everynight) i would of never known but he left his email open and he had an appontment with a person who her email address was very sexy . It happened while i was working during the day so he was always home when i was , did not act differently at all. I am trying so hard to stay together as i love and like him enjoy his company and it would devestate our sons who are 17 and 21
I believe you can miss the signs if you are not paying attention:
1.If you are too busy with kids, work, etc.
2. you don't care enough about the person and don't have much of a relationship to notice the change of behavior or pattern.
The point of cheating is that it go undetected !!
Unfortunately people get caught !!
Or fortunately get caught somewhere down the line !!
Some people are just in denial and turn a blind eye. Sad, but true. I sure as hell wouldn't!
How to get a cheating boyfriend back?
Today, I found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me with one of my friends. He has been lying to me where he's been, fooling around with her, and saying exactly the same thing her that he has been saying to me.
She didn't know that we were going out and we are both planning on teaming up on him, and doing some damage. It has to be epic, like go down in ******* history. John Tucker must die style.
PS:
He doesn't have a car and we can't really do anything to his personal belongings.
So yeah.
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Well... You can do something funny like cheat on him and make it obvious like make a video of something... I heard this story about a great breakup where a guy left his girlfriend by having a girl suck him off and spit into cookie mix he made for his newfound ex. and he put a video of this at the end of a copy of a season of her favorite show. It's mean and cruel... but, quite hilarioius.
you should both just sleep with him at the same time. that will go down in history
GROW UP.
that is horrible
A bunch of girls got there own back on me once. I'd met one girl in a local bar and well she was married but in a bad relationship and wanted out but would never leave him. Anyway when she suggested coming back to mine, well i'm not one to refuse, being single. I never took the 'relationshp' as anything serious, and had a lot of interest from girls at that time. (Nowadays i couldn't pull a ligament!) What i didn't know was that out of 4 girls i was seeing (all of them were single mums) they all knew each other because their kids all went to the same school! So they must have been talking one morning and my name must have come up!!!
One morning just after 9, there was a knock on the door, one of my girls. She just wanted to jump in bed, and well as i said 'm not one to refuse and anyway she sad she ddn't have much time, so it would be a quickie. 5 minutes after she left, girl number 2 came knocking, also in a hurry but also wanting to jump straght into bed. And yes this continued, all 4 of them one after another, i must admit i'd run out of stamina. But they were all asking me the same questions. Do i love them, do i want to be with them and no one else, and me being too polite to tell the truth, just told them all what they wanted to hear! The last girl invited me to a party that same night to which i agreed and when i turned up it was an all girl party and every girl there was one of my current or ex's.
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She didn't know that we were going out and we are both planning on teaming up on him, and doing some damage. It has to be epic, like go down in ******* history. John Tucker must die style.
PS:
He doesn't have a car and we can't really do anything to his personal belongings.
So yeah.
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Well... You can do something funny like cheat on him and make it obvious like make a video of something... I heard this story about a great breakup where a guy left his girlfriend by having a girl suck him off and spit into cookie mix he made for his newfound ex. and he put a video of this at the end of a copy of a season of her favorite show. It's mean and cruel... but, quite hilarioius.
you should both just sleep with him at the same time. that will go down in history
GROW UP.
that is horrible
A bunch of girls got there own back on me once. I'd met one girl in a local bar and well she was married but in a bad relationship and wanted out but would never leave him. Anyway when she suggested coming back to mine, well i'm not one to refuse, being single. I never took the 'relationshp' as anything serious, and had a lot of interest from girls at that time. (Nowadays i couldn't pull a ligament!) What i didn't know was that out of 4 girls i was seeing (all of them were single mums) they all knew each other because their kids all went to the same school! So they must have been talking one morning and my name must have come up!!!
One morning just after 9, there was a knock on the door, one of my girls. She just wanted to jump in bed, and well as i said 'm not one to refuse and anyway she sad she ddn't have much time, so it would be a quickie. 5 minutes after she left, girl number 2 came knocking, also in a hurry but also wanting to jump straght into bed. And yes this continued, all 4 of them one after another, i must admit i'd run out of stamina. But they were all asking me the same questions. Do i love them, do i want to be with them and no one else, and me being too polite to tell the truth, just told them all what they wanted to hear! The last girl invited me to a party that same night to which i agreed and when i turned up it was an all girl party and every girl there was one of my current or ex's.
Oh dear.
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