Friday, August 20, 2010

How can you get over someone cheating on you and give them a second chance?

After 5 years my ex still loves me and begs me to get back with him and we are 5 years older and more mature but how do i know he wont go back to cheating on me? The first year we dated he cheated with multiple girls and after having the worst break up and make ups we still seem to find ourselves at square one, in love but no trust?How can you get over someone cheating on you and give them a second chance?
what a person is like in their past, is a strong indication of what they'll probably be like in the future.


why dont u decide what makes YOU happy?


im sure you're a beautiful girl, there are a million other guys out there, why would u subject yourself to the same experience?


and its not like he justcheated once, u said he did it MULTIPLE times. thats no mistakeHow can you get over someone cheating on you and give them a second chance?
I unfortunately went thru a similar situation...im still with him and we are now planning on getting married.





We had been going out for a little less than a year when i found out there was an incident. It was rough but i've never met someone that made so much effort to make things work. Its a joint decision and we had to clear the slate which meant i had to forgive him...its now 2 years later and he is still dedicated and loving even more so than ever. Some people would say im naive but i do trust him and it can work but its work. He worked for my trust back every single day and is still working...i guess it depends on what he is willing to do to keep you.





good luck
So its been five years of on and off relations with him? If that's the case don't you think its time to move on with your life? It really depends on you honey and what your gut instinct tells you. Personally I think your wasting valuable time on him.
he will stray again -deep down i think you know this - 5 years is a long time youre both changed and things would never be the same again x
is it worth it to be with him if he's going to hurt you every time???

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