How can you tell if your girlfriend is cheating on?

How can you tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you? I don't want to hire a detective or anything like that. We are together for five years now. I am having suspections lately but I am not sure, before I come out with accusations I want to be 100 % sure.How can you tell if your girlfriend is cheating on?
If your girlfriend was cheating, believe me, you would know, when you have been with someone for so long, things change, maybe its you, try and spice things up, have some fun and if things dont feel happier, then its time to worry. Dont be so negativeHow can you tell if your girlfriend is cheating on?
Okay you think your girlfriend is cheating. So I suppose you just going with gut feeling no real prove. Yes, must be sure before comfronting her. Here are a few questions you need to ask your self. When the two of you together is it more aruging than usually? Have you tried to spend more with her and she makes any excuse to get out? Has there been any previous infedity on either of your parts? Do still have the same spark when making love? Do you find yourself making emotions? Do you catch her in a number of lies? Has it the point where lines of communcation are unrepairable? These are only a few you need to think about no matter how long it takes. Are there any children involved? If so, this could make situation most diffcult. approach looking from all side.Its no right way or time to bring up this type of convestion. One key part is to have relaxed mind so creat more tension even already placed between you two okay. I do believe you two can make it through if really want this relationship and love each other with all your heart. As for the private detective it should be a last resort to handling the matter. Most people involved worst off things can possibly end up.
I agree, if you are meeting her needs (not just sex and physical, I mean emotional, listening, lending a hand...etcetc) then she won't. Otherwise it may be hell trying to find out what you are not doing to keep her from wandering.


You can check her phone easily. Text and calls. Does she have a schedule book around too?


When do you think she does these excursions? You can make a dinner date once a week for her, make her feel special. But you will need to keep it up. Cook a meal for her. Clean the house up.


Are you keeping up your looks? Showering? Brushing your teeth? Are your clothes too out-of-date? Give her a massage after a day of work. Also if she is dressing differently (sexier) and making more of an effort over her looks for work, she might be.


Do you communicate openly, honestly often? Do you fight, or do you agree on everything she wants? Relationships can turn stale and boring for a girl if you do everything she wants. You want some variety.


You can ask her friends that you are close with. Could ask your friends. You could also get those cameras and car-ware installed to see and track where she goes. Although if she finds out, she could probably take you to court for stalker attitude... but depends on what kind of person she is.
Wow this is hard because you have to know her.





But the cellphones are a dead giveaway...I know it's wrong but I found out ppl were cheating because I looked at the text messages or emails - I feel bad for even typing that i did this...but I had to do it...





Don't let ppl put you down you can give your all to someone and they would cheat if they're dirtbags...and screw that invasion of privacy crap. They're invading your privacy by sleeping around and possibly giving you STD's.
If you can check her phone for unexpected calls or texts from guys. look on myspace and facebook see if she is getting picture comments or other comments from guys. if all of a sudden she's always busy friday %26amp; Saturday nights don't be surprised if she's with someone else. %26amp; if you have a mutual friend ask them if they know if anything is up. They shouldn't be bias since it is a ';mutual'; friend GOOD LUCK!
My BF is doing the accusation thing too! 7yrs for me, and it's true I am tired of his a$$!! This is because we are socially different. Check for nonchalant signs or less passion, Observe the times she's frustrated and you have no idea why.
If she is acting different around you, or doesn't want to be around you as much anymore. She may kiss you different and things like that. But there is really no way to be 100% sure, unless you talk to her about it. Good luck
Just have another friend drive you around and follow her one night in a car she wouldnt really recognize. See where she is going and who she is hanging out with
There are no guarantees in life. You have to base your actions on what you believe.
Until u have 100% proof that she is cheating on u don't let you suspicions get the best of you...
If you're meeting all her needs, she won't cheat.
if she is busy all of a sudden and she seems less needy from you.
poor baby ,its tough I know what did you do ?