Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Cheating??

me and my bf everytime we have trouble and break up i talk to another guy. he finds this to be cheating even if we are split up at the time. we always get back together but this second time we havent and its been almost 4 wks. he says he needs time he isnt sure if he can trust me again. im so confused bc i didnt cheat, we werent together. what do i do about this situation. and if he dont let me see him or answer my calls how can i make it better. he still says he loves me and maybe later in life will want to get back together but now he wants time with out me. what do i do?Cheating??
He obviously doesn't trust you. If he sees you talking to another guy and assumes that you did more than just talking, he's just being jealous in a trust-less way.





You should give him his space and find other guys. If it's been 4 weeks, it's not really a break anymore, it's just a break-up.Cheating??
they have a name for what hes doing....its called a cop out.....and that exactly what hes doing....cause he knows darn well...its not cheating when theres no known commitment at the time....men have killa egos...they cant help it....but its not up to you to stroke that ego either...so if he has issues...listen to him...give him time....let him have his moment to shine..but dont you wait on no man...you hear me...take this time to figure out why....the constant break ups....theres something not right....and you need to figure it out...i think you need this time as well..so take full advantage of it...good luck...and dont worry....it may be a blessing in disguise!!!!
Cheating is defined by you and what you promise.





If you say 'I'll have relations with other men' and then do, it is not cheating.





Have the courage to be honest and don't make promises just to sound romantic or sound like a 'nice girl'.





Honesty is ALL that matters in the end.

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