Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you know when ur boyfriend is cheating on u?

I don't really know if my boyfriend is cheating in me. So I want to know some ways when my boyfriend could be cheated on me. How do you know when ur boyfriend is cheating on u?
- Doesn't leave his phone around / goes out the room when he texts or calls.


- Goes off you / or treats you more out of guilt


- Starts making more of an effort again


- Goes out and doesn't tell you where / can't get hold of him





The list goes on


=DHow do you know when ur boyfriend is cheating on u?
The only way is to ask him straight. I


If you ask him and he gets defensive easily you should probably be worried.


If you ask him and he denies it straight out and answers all your questions and tries to reassure you, then he probably isn't but if you find out later he has/is cheating on you then dump the jerk.





The only other way is if you stalk him, go through his phone, ask around his friends etc, but that is being dishonest and doing things behind his back, and if he isn't cheating and finds out what you've been up to and how untrusting you are with him, he will probably be furious!!
A really big sign is when they start accusing you of cheating on them. They begin to reflect their own fears and feelings of getting caught and having to be sneaky and accuse you of doing it. Also, if he is secretive about you looking at his cell phone...nothing wrong with privacy but if he makes sure that you never have the opportunity to look at it then that could be a clue. Also, it's proven that men that cheat are MORE sexually active with their partners and may be more sweet and stuff to make up for what they are doing.
If you worry about that you're relationship will crumble pretty quickly.





Learn to trust him, then you won't have to ask such silly questions

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