Needless to say we got back together and we are very much in love! I would never 'cheat' on her again or have since that stupid dance with the other girl.
She calls me asking if I'm cheating on her and leaves messages asking if I'm cheating. I love my honey bunny and would never cheat on her again!
How can I convince her I wont?How can I get my girlfriend to stop accusing me of cheating even long after I did?
Girls who do that are usually a few things:
1- they usually tend to be insecure about it... this is usually caused by them cheating themselves.
2- they usually tend to view themselves as ';above'; their partner, which justifies in their mind the excessive complaining about the possibility of cheating... and remember, ';higher value'; girlfriends tend to be more likely to cheat, as they wont respect their partner as much by comparison...
3- they usually are in the headspace of cheating, which is why their mind is always on the thought of cheating- they are doing it and planning it themselves, on a daily basis, most likely!
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Next time your girlfriend says she thinks you are cheating, or asks you if you are cheating, you should do the following:
TURN THE TABLES AROUND ON HER!
When she asks you, be like ';babe, i already know why you are saying this. your saying this because you are cheating. how do i know?'; (and then go into the 3 reasons above that i listed)
then after you say those 3 reasons, be like ';so in conclusion, thats why i think you're the one cheating. and aside from that, i found out from a few people they said you were sleeping around. so if you want ';US'; to work out, you better fess up';
and then 1 of 2 things will happen:
1- she really did cheat, and she fesses up
2- she doesnt admit to it (maybe she did cheat, maybe she didnt, who knows)
and either way, you find out a little bit more about her, and no harm is done. better yet, you have shown yourself to be high-value, alpha, and in control, and you establish that you arent the kind of guy to take sh*t! This makes her assume ';wow, what if he really DOES have another girl?'; and THIS TIME instead of being b*tchy about it (which is what cheating girls do to keep their guys in line while they hump a big black d*ck), INSTEAD she is gonna be like ';oh SH*T this guy is for real'; and then they are gonna get all nervous and insecure and really be all nice to you and worried and clingy and stuff.
in other words... doing this would be to your advantage! so just do it!
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