Cheating??

a friend of mine cheated on her boyfriend with one of his friends, she of course used the excuse that everyone had too much to drink and things got out of hand. now she says that she feels horrible but now she realizes how much she really loves her boyfriend. She is thinking about being honest with him and tell him what she did, is that the right move?? i don't know what to tell her, please help. Do you believe she loves him?? if yes then why did she cheat on him??Cheating??
She needs to tell him personally and get it out in the open. If the relationship continues, it's his call. If she keeps it hidden and he finds out later, all hell will break lose...damage control falls to zero.Cheating??
I don't think that she really loves him. If she did, nothing would of ';gotten out of hand';. Yes, she needs to tell him the truth! Relationships are all about honesty and loving each other for who that person really is... if you hold something back from someone that you love, because you think that it will make them not love you anymore, then you are not being honest with that person, or even giving them the chance to see another real side to you, and give them the decision to still love you. You never know, after she tells him they may break up, or he will understand and love her more for being honest (my guess is he will dump her). But regardless, she has made her bed now she will sleep in it! Tell her to own up to what she did and move on or it will eat at her forever.
I think it is possible to love someone but still cheat on them. I love my husband more than any other man ive been with but i've cheated on him.


I kept it to myself though, he wouldn't like it one bit if he found out.
....I don't really understand ';cheaters'; either hun.....and thank GOD I don't really have the power to go there either.! I've now had the unpleasurable experience of having been with successfully ';two cheaters'; in my life darling......and absolutely ';cheaters will be cheaters, will be cheaters really!'; They have a mental propensity to not be satisfied with anything darlin......what else can they do for themselves otherwise?


.....They're mentally conflicted unsatisfied people of course.....and who am I or who are you to pick on them reasonably?


They have extremely difficult moments of self created lust filled fixations hun.


We don't have the high mental disorder to cheat within ourselves hun.....so we'll never understand what the fixation of cheating is really like.


I just know it probably leaves these people in a ';state of mind'; that's never satisfied with nothing unwittingly


....what else can and should we do about them proactively?


Don't be with people that have a mind to cheat sweetie.


We'll never be happy with them quite completely either.......and we don't have to be honestly!


Stay away from the cheaters of the planet hun.......they only know how to disappoint other people alternatively!