How can you tell if your husband is cheating wether it be physical or physcological?

I think my husband is cheating on me but want someone else's opinion. He hangs around with one of our friends who is a girl a whole lot. He has more to do with her than me. He says there is nothing going on there but then why do they tell each other they love each other if nothing is going on. I find text messages on his phone that say sexy, beautiful, gorgouse, and love you in them. He texts me anything at all. What should I do?How can you tell if your husband is cheating wether it be physical or physcological?
First and foremost, a husband should not behave like what he is doing in front or at the back of you. If values your commitment and respects you as his wife, he will not do things that will hurt or offend you even if he says she's just as friend. Years ago, my husband also has this lady friend who texts him sweet and nasty things (sexy) all in one, when I got his messages, I confronted him right away. Stand firm on your ground that you are his wife and you deserve respect, be open to him all the time specially your feelings.How can you tell if your husband is cheating wether it be physical or physcological?
After marriage, there is a possibility of partners losing interest in each other. That is the reason why one must never compromise on self respect and esteem, after marriage. In a relationship, everything is mutual. Normally, women take marriage as granted and start avoiding taking care of themselves. They get too involved in the daily chores that they have little time to spend on themselves.





Every married lady must try to find out the tastes of their husbands and deal with them appropriately. Some amount of flirting can be tolerated but there must be no abuse of any form, either physical or psychological.





Talk to your husband frankly, find out what is troubling him, and see if you can be of help to him. Sometimes, it may not be a serious relationship and he will come back to you.





Wish you all the very best.
You can tell if they are cheating if they have a penis. If so, they are or will.





From the texts it sounds like he is but I don't know whether it's physical (yet) or just emotional cheating. Depends how much he sees her...





I'm so sorry :-( you have to decide if you'd rather confront him, wait and see, leave him (if you can), good luck





Harriet
What a bastard. Ask him to look at it the other way around. Its ok to have friends of the opposite sex but he is over stepping the mark and disrespecting you telling someone else they are beautiful etc. Trust your instincts. You should not be made to feel second best.
Six years ago I had the same problem. I just found out a week ago that he did have an affair with this person, Which is why I am on yahoo answers looking for solutions to my heartache at 3:30 in the morning.


Good luck
When your husband begins to show less interest in you and more interest in someone else, that doesn't necessarily mean that he is having an affair, but it darn sure sets him up for one.
its obvious that there something with the two of them its much better for you to confront your husband and tell him that you read the txt msg and dont let him to do that to you
ask the girl. If she lies to you you can kick her ***. He might need to have it done by someone bigger. ? who knows, maybe you can take him too....LOL...
you can always tell when ,you ask for someone to validate your feeling . i'm sorry but your heart already knows the answer
It could just be some harmless fun but it could be more.
u already know the answer.
Red flag right there. They're obviously flirting. U tell 'em how it is.
oh yes that IS cheating.
There's flirting there if they are saying those things to each other. Tell them both that you want this to stop.
I didn't read all but from the first two lines Im sure he is cheating period