How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?

I suspect my husband is cheating he is being very stinky lately. Like he don't like me getting on his computer and when he deletes something from his computer he makes sure its out of the recycle bin


and he used to call me when I am at work at night now he don't and when I call him he says hes busy. But when I go home in the morning nothing around the house is done.How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
You need to call him out on this behavior. He most likely is, or looking at porn a lot. If he gets defensive and denies it then you know he is cheating. Whatever he is doing, figure it out and make a decision whether to stay or leave. Its never good to be blind in your relationship.How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
You can either sneak around and find the information out for yourself, or you can talk to him and ask him to come clean if he is. Sometimes communication is the best way to go, it clears up a lot of insecurity issues between both parties.
I think you know he is. the question now is what are you going to do? Often we have an innate sense that lets us know and it tends to be right. If you truly are unsure, talking to him calmly should work. Asking why he deletes things if he has nothing to hide should help. communication is key--do not accuse just ask.
Look listen snoop, look for recites, watch mileage on car, restore the recycle bin, check history through your power desk, check phone in/out calls, check his cloths, when you find what you think you need talk to him.
Unless you catch him, you won't know.





My question is why do you want on his computer? Why do you want to see what's in the recycle bin? You must already suspect he is up to something or you wouldn't be getting nosy in the first place.
Try these


- Put a hidden cam at home


- Ask your most reliable friend to keep watch


- Give sudden visit home(say with your headache, you could not be in the office)


- See his bills / cash flow


- Ask him to join for dinner / lunch at your office
It definitely sounds suspicious. Get a program called cybersitter keyboard monitor. It operates secretly in the background and you can see what he is typing. I think he is up to no good.
Sit down and trash things out with him.


Let him know what's on your mind and


that you wish to work things out with him.


No point wasting time guessing.
Ask him.
If you're not a dumb person,


you'll find out someday.


Just do it discreetly.
Get a spying agent to spy on him.
well you know he is you got that feeling then that is what going on why else for a sudden change
Hire a P.I. to do your dirty work, that way you don't get caught up.