Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Cheating ?????

how come every time someone says something about cheating everyone always says it bad, it hurts people, get a divorce,ect.maybe we dont want a divorce . would everyone agreee divorce hurts? and stay together for the children? wrong ansewer the children dont need to be raised in a family that is just together for that reason. and if no of these self rightious people are cheating why is our divorce rate over 50% and who are these guys sleeping with if no of the women are having affairs? i say go for it if we wernt supposed to have sex then god wouldnt have made it feel so good. i have done all the right things i have talked to my wife , suggested a dr, begged her , threatened divorce,and nothing. and i know[not think] but know that i please her in bed thats not the problem. and i know that some smart tail is going to get offended of my confidence in that area but get over it. i have referances!!! so what to do???Cheating ?????
All I can say is that if she's not getting it from you, she's getting it from someone else. Don't be so confident in yourself ,BUD!Cheating ?????
If your couple is secure enough to allow you and your wife to sleep with other people, then go ahead. Cheating is bad for those who can't handle it, but if it is actually saving your couple by getting rid of the boredom, then, great! Just know where your heart is.





If people are not acceptant of that and call you names, it's because they probably lack the confidence you have in your couple. They will be the ones increasing the divorce stats.





I absolutely agree with you that no one should stay together for the children. That's definitely the last thing to do.
if you loved each other you or her won't cheat it does hurt the spouse if she loves her husband you feel betrayed and like your ugly or something is wrong
don't get your panties in a bunch.....if it works for you then go right ahead and cheat.....good luck
did your children ask you to bring them into the world? no, you made that decision with the person you're with, no matter how it came about. i agree staying together only for the sake of the children is wrong, but you owe it to them, who should be your #1 priority, to figure it out. if they are not, then you have bigger issues.





the next step is for you to go to counseling alone and let that help you figure out what's best for you. even if it means leaving. on the other hand, just because you're fantastic in bed doesn't mean you get to spread the love.
I'm confused by your question. Who is cheating, you or her? Ok, it's good that you're confident but why is cheating alright? Do you like having mistrust in your relationship? Do you like worrying about catching (or spreading) STDs? Do you think that is a healthy thing for other family members to witness? Really, I think you need to do some deep thinking on the subject!
Dude.....someone else is f--king your wife
HUH, sure, maybe, okay, your right, no doctor, Huh!!!!
sometimes were at different places in the relationship then our spouses,but you need to relize where your at.One your asking for help from the net that says your willing to try ,two the children are reasons to stay that shows your determination not to give up on them also.your doing the right thing stay strong for your family your a man and the head of household your the glue!!! i request an old friend of mine i'm no holy roller but when my marriage was on the rocks i just asked god to show me what we were doing wrong for the best intrest of your family.sometimes we might not like what we see but then you'll know then what to do seperation might be the answer only god knows and also just trying to take a side seat to your problem concentrate on the kids,work.take the kids out just you alone and them creating memorys let her have some time alone with the house and her thoughts,sooner or later she'll relize also what your doing and your efforts and this relationship will come around.AND CHEATING IS NOT THE ANSWER/CARMA IS A *****!!!!
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