Monday, August 16, 2010

What are really good ways to tell if your boyfriend is cheating?

My best thinks her live in boyfriend is cheating. Although there are no signs of this, she swears she feels it in her gut. I tell her it could be because of her bad past with men, but at the same time I know when you feel it in your gut you are usually right...how could she tell if he is really covering it up well..I mean really well.What are really good ways to tell if your boyfriend is cheating?
It could very well be that she is insecure. You should be able to trust your gut though. Your gut is normally right. Now if she has a bad past this could make her paranoid. And if he is that good at covering it up and he is cheating, then odds are she won't find out unless he tells her. What are really good ways to tell if your boyfriend is cheating?
Thanx Kate17! Those were some good points..

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She needs to come right out and talk to him about it. Chances are he won't get defensive about it if she talks to him in non-acusatory way IF he's not guilty. I've had feelings like this before solely because I was paranoid by the men in my past therefore I'm insecure. I came right out and in a heartfelt way explain this to my boyfriend and he didn't get mad at all, he was more concerned for me. He wanted to know what he could do to help me feel more secure. So if he's not guilty, her boyfriend should respond the same way, and it'll make her feel alot better.
smell his penis! works every 60% of the time, every time!
It could be that hes not cheating. I myself have a bad past with boyfriends and for the first few months I swore on my life my boyfriend was cheating. Turned out he wasnt, it was all in my head. Females tend to think something sooo much that they convince themselves its true. Theres not direct way of telling that hes cheating if he's covering it up well but here are a few things that only COULD possibliy mean hes cheating:





Unexplained Absenses:This could be many things like, blowing off a hang out for what seems to be a ';solid'; excuse, but when questioned about the activity it seems very flimsy. He comes home late from somewhere and when asked about his lateness gives a quick answer than either changes the subject or avoids it all together.





Unusual Amount of Technilogical Communication: He runs to his computer to answer e-mails,(if you go to check he either changes the screen, x's it off, or turns to talk to you about sometime pointless). He constantly is getting text messages from ';friends'; Either he'll admit its from another female but act like its nothing or he will say its a different friend. The only way to tell is to ';snoop'; through his phone. He gets phones calls that end with ';im with the girlfriend i gotta go'; sorta thing and says it was his buddy asking to hang out. No guy hangs up on a buddy that fast.





On Edge When Questioned: If you friend questions him about anything that doesnt involve her (parties, hang outs etc.) He gives either a very undetailed ';it was boring'; story or goes into full ';over'; detail explaining all events. You may get the feeling hes trying to cover ';all bases'; so theres no reason for you to question anything.





His Friends: Generally speaking if a man is cheating, one of his buddies knows. Try to listen and watch closey. His buddies may make a joke about a specific ';girl'; or if he gets a text from that special someone his buddies may act ';off'; by cracking unnecissary jokes etc.





Word of Mouth: Unless its petty highschool dramatics, stories usually come from somewhere. Does you friends boyfriend hang out with other girls at all? Does your friend know about this? If she hears a story that her man was with another girl for dinner it may be someone saw them walking out of a restaurant together, nothing more. If you friend does NOT know about this ';hang out'; its a cause for suspicion.





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