Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do you cope with a cheating wife that's ruining your family?

Upon my arrival home from a major surgery, I come to find out my wife is having a affair with a man 10 years younger then her and she is using drugs.How do you cope with a cheating wife that's ruining your family?
Kick her *** out, File for divorce and then find someone you can talk to that can help you get through this.How do you cope with a cheating wife that's ruining your family?
Depends, does the husband love his wife?





If not, well that's easy isn't it. Leave, divorce and move on.





If he does then tough love s in order. Separate himself from her until she gets her act together.
If you are one of those men who keep some dignity with them, you need to serve her with divorce papers and get your joy and peace back into your life. Remember you only have one, learn to live it wisely and well
Get her help. People aren't themselves when they're on drugs. Get her help and support her, give her another chance. If she does it again, it's time to think about what you want to do.
Cheating is never right. If a couple is going to play like that, there should be some sort of understanding up front. Depending on how long it had been for the two of you, women still have physical needs the same as men. It never seems to be a big deal when the man goes outside the marriage when his wife isn't satisfying him, but when a woman does it, oh boy is she labeled a sl*t.





Talk to her and find out what her physical needs really are. Is this younger man larger than you? Does he have more stamina? Does he use his mouth more so than you? Does he treat her with more respect? Does he engage her mentally more than you? Is there a certain act that you refuse to do that he will?





Find out the answers, have a heart to heart talk with her, and go from there.
That is terrible. I'm very sorry to hear of your difficulties.


You need to establish your own house on your best principles.


I'm not saying kick her out. Just make it clear that she will have to earn her way back in.


People fail, even wives. Don't fall into hate. Be a rock for the sake of your family.


May God be with you.
YOU MUST divorce her. She is an undiagnosed mental case but never ever say anything about that to anyone, except YOUR divorce lawyer. Just get her out of your life for good.
if you want this marriage to work it will if you both want it to. But since there are drugs involved from my own experience that will be the reason you had better plan on get help for yourself and the children. Al-a-non is free for you and the children. It saved my life.


I am so sorry you have to go through all this and for the children. But you will make it if you want to. You can't fix nor change her. All you can do at this point is change you and pray for the best for the children. God is with you always.
Divorce her asap
gosh.. i don't know what has gotten into people anymore!! a cheater, whether it's a man or woman, has to go..
Get her some psychatric help. For better or worse.
Kick her to the curb %26amp; don't look back!
First of all drugs are far too often used as an excuse for misbehaving... How do you this person did not start taking drugs because she was sleeping around while her husband was sick? Anyhow, I would ask to leave the premises. You need a cool head to think and time to heal. If you are inclined to work things out, I would make sure that the drug and cheating problems are treated. People are not ';entitled'; to second chance. And once trust is broken, it is very hard to win back. Most people are unwilling to put forth the effort required because they want instant gratification. I don't know: abandoning your spouse while their health is not that great is a big deal, cheating is a big deal, using drugs is a big deal. All of these are more than a temporary lapse in judgment. The lady made the wrong choice over and over.
Kick her butt out right now and change the locks.
You take the kids and yourself out of the home.


Drugs is a risky business. There could be a death involved! Either an overdose,


a cranky drug lord or the cops.


Get your kids to safety until she comes to her senses.


You can figure the rest out when the time comes.


Get those kids safe.

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