Monday, August 16, 2010

How do I leave my boyfriend thats cheating on me and still feel goot about myself?

We've been together for 3 years and I have caught him 2 times cheating on me. I know I need to leave him but I feel bad to dump him?


Any advice and no bad comments please?How do I leave my boyfriend thats cheating on me and still feel goot about myself?
Hi Ang





It's never easy to brake up with someone when you have been together so long no matter what the circumstances are.





He cheated on you not once but twice (maybe more) and that is a sign that he doesn't appreciate you at all.





It's also normal to feel bad cause men like that will play on your soft side and make you feel bad. Just remember that you are a unique human being and no one deserves to be treated like that.





Good luck as this is never easy but it will be worth while. There are someone out there who will treat you like a lady needs to be treated.





Just wait and you will see.How do I leave my boyfriend thats cheating on me and still feel goot about myself?
The longer you stay in that relationship the harder it will get. Someone cheating on you twice is pretty much the end of the line, so do what you've got to do. You need to dump him, but I know you will feel bad afterwards. Just try to distract yourself as much as you can until you're over it, and find someone new that makes you happy, and that is honest and treats you with respect.





(Also, the longer you wait to dump him, the longer it will take you to find someone that you really deserve!)
You really shouldn't feel bad, he's the one cheating so he should be the one that should be ashamed and feel bad.


Tell him that you don't think that things between the two of you can work any longer as you feel underestimated.


If you don't want to tell him face to face


Send him a mail or an sms saying that you feel hurt, lied to and cheated and the fact that you have caught him cheating on you twice should be reason enough not to feel bad for breaking up with him





You are worth every single day that goes by and you will find someone better and who will treat you right
after the first time he cheated,he wasn't your boyfriend anyway. if he had really cared about you or your relationship he never would have strayed. You are right, you should tell him how you feel and why. it doesn't even matter why he did what he did, it never should have happened, and there is no explanation that can take that away. why do you feel bad about dumping him, he didn't feel bad about being with someone else when he was supposed to be with you. Don't feel bad about sending him on his way, feel bad for the next girl he does it to. (and he will) Feel sad for the time you wasted with him, but be glad that you can now move forward in life. Give the right guy a chance to find you and make you his.


Look into your heart, it will tell you the truth, even if someone else isn't.


Best of Luck
Well... its a tricky situation any way you look at it, but i think you just need to be honest and sincere, tell him that you care for him but you cant keep going on like this you need someone who is going to be honest and faithful... someone you can have a life with.... Its going to be hard but its the best thing for ya, and as long as your honest and nice about it you shouldn't feel too bad afterwards
just walk away it will hurt , 3 years is a long time but he does not love you ,hes just using you and when he gets a better offer he will leave you . get out now imagine what you would feel like if he leaves you after all the hurt he has caused you. you deserve much more out of your life than being someones second best a clean break walk away don't fall for his false promises when he rings to tell you that he loves you and he wont stray again . he will its the way he is he wont change
get rid ofhim and u shouldnt feel bad just remember hes the one in the wrong not you. but to be honest no matter what any one says you will feel slightly bad after bein in a relationshipthat long but its only naturall. just go out wit ur friends and have a good time lifes to hort to waiste feelin sorry for urself. he isnt worth it if hes cheated so get out there and find some one better. hope this helps
Is it your conscience that troubles you? Why? He's the one who cheated on you?! Just tell him it's over, you don't have to go into details and arguments.





Or is there something else at work here? Are you worried about being boyfriend-less? Or afraid of his reaction?
I would think that leaving him would make you feel good.
You should not feel bad at all. He CHEATED on you. Leave him.
just break it off.


and if u still dont feel good about urself send him some nasty texts/emails.

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