How do you work through your boyfriend cheating on you?

Yesterday, my boyfriend admitted to cheating on me during the end of summer vacation. He said he would never do it again, and would never intentionally hurt me like that (he was drunk when he cheated on me). He was crying, that's how bad he felt. I know he won't do that again, and I do forgive him, but now I don't know what to do from here. I'm not going to leave him because he's honestly the best boyfriend I've ever had.


So, how do we work through this?How do you work through your boyfriend cheating on you?
unfortunately, you will never get the vision of him cheating out of your mind. the drunk excuse, doesn't cut it. what will happen the next time he drinks? will he say i'm sorry again? if you were married and had children, i'd suggest professional counseling to help you work through this but without it, i'm sorry to say the relationship is doomedHow do you work through your boyfriend cheating on you?
it is true that u will never forget about that but every body makes mistakes so sit down and talk to him and tell him not to do that again and that it is his last opportunity it worked for me soo far i hope it works for you too

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i would've most likely left him.


there are no accidents [like that] in my book.


buut, if you've decided to stay with him...then over time it'll heal.


if it doesn't, then you should leave.

How can you get over someone cheating on you and give them a second chance?

After 5 years my ex still loves me and begs me to get back with him and we are 5 years older and more mature but how do i know he wont go back to cheating on me? The first year we dated he cheated with multiple girls and after having the worst break up and make ups we still seem to find ourselves at square one, in love but no trust?How can you get over someone cheating on you and give them a second chance?
what a person is like in their past, is a strong indication of what they'll probably be like in the future.


why dont u decide what makes YOU happy?


im sure you're a beautiful girl, there are a million other guys out there, why would u subject yourself to the same experience?


and its not like he justcheated once, u said he did it MULTIPLE times. thats no mistakeHow can you get over someone cheating on you and give them a second chance?
I unfortunately went thru a similar situation...im still with him and we are now planning on getting married.





We had been going out for a little less than a year when i found out there was an incident. It was rough but i've never met someone that made so much effort to make things work. Its a joint decision and we had to clear the slate which meant i had to forgive him...its now 2 years later and he is still dedicated and loving even more so than ever. Some people would say im naive but i do trust him and it can work but its work. He worked for my trust back every single day and is still working...i guess it depends on what he is willing to do to keep you.





good luck
So its been five years of on and off relations with him? If that's the case don't you think its time to move on with your life? It really depends on you honey and what your gut instinct tells you. Personally I think your wasting valuable time on him.
he will stray again -deep down i think you know this - 5 years is a long time youre both changed and things would never be the same again x
is it worth it to be with him if he's going to hurt you every time???

How can I earn money on YoVille on facebook without cheating?

I want some ways to make some YoVille money WITHOUT cheating. I want to know different things I can do for money besides just visiting friends. And I know you can cook at the sweets factory, but what is the best thing to make for the most money? Thanks! ~hmanneHow can I earn money on YoVille on facebook without cheating?
There are several ways to make monet in YoVille.





Visit friends everyday (up to 20 ea day), leaving a message or gift gets the most coins. Dancing, fighting etc get fewer coins. Thisis known as a coin run or coin chase, everyone that plays regularly does it.





Play games with other YoVillians, you can win Rock Paper Scissors or Tic Tac Toe 20 times each day for 10 coins ea.





There is a fast way called maxing. When you play RPS, both players start, then one person cancels the game after the Go appears, the other person wins by default. You will see people ask for m4m or max4max or max 4 gift. Basically they will let u win 20 times, then you return the favor or send them a gift (nothing fancy or it's not worth it - give a free gift that you got from a friend). Winning these games also gets you 5 yopoints ea game (max 100 per day)





You can win at the Speedway and/or Fishing 20 times a day for 10 coins ea win and 25 yopoints. Fishing is hard and bait is expensive, learn to use the speedway. I usually try and win 4 times a day mostly for the Yopoints.





Also go to your YoVille profile (at the bottom of the screen, below the friend ladder), you can search for gold pots - 5 coins ea and turn on lights- 5 coins ea everyday and find free gifts. This works with both your YoVille buudies and your social network friends and crew, the more you have the easier it is. Do this once every day.





Baking - everyday you get a stipend from the afctory between 70-100 coins. You have to clean the ovens 10 coins ea, you also get 1 yopoint for each 1 cleaned, once cleaned you can bake. Here is the important part, only bake soemthing you cane get out of the oven befoore it burns. The rule is, if it bakes in 4 hours it burns 4 hours later. So if you cannot get back within 8 hours you will burn your baking, loose your investment and have to pay to clean the ovens to start again. Same for 12 hours, give you 24 hours to get back before it burns. Pick items that best fit your schedule and don't forget about your baking or you end up loosing more than you make.





To get bonuses when baking you need crew, the more crew the better the bonuses, only friends can be crew, but you also have to invite them onto your crew and they have to accept. Once they accept you are on each others crew, works both ways. If you need more crew search the YoVille groups on your social networking site, there are always ppl that wanted to be added to get more crew members. It is up to you if you want starngers in your friends list in your social networking account. remeber you can always remove them if you need to for any reason.





Also on FaceBook - you will see in your Feed opportunity to help your friends in the factory or recognize someone as a good friend, you will get coins for doing these and either yopoints or friend points. I assume this is similar on other social networking sites, but I only have FB.





There are no cheats in YoVille no matter what anyone tells you. There are lots of scams, watch out for the double up scam. Also don't loan ppl coins unless to know them in real life and trust them to pay you back. There are lots of mooches on YoVille as well. If you add someone as a buddy and they accept you are on each others buddy list. You or the other person can always remove them if they become annoying or bothersome. Once you remove them, you are also removed from there list. You may still run into them on occassion, but they can no longer follow you whenever they want.





Hope this helps you. See you around YoVille





Zed (my FB YoVille Character)How can I earn money on YoVille on facebook without cheating?
well you can play people in tic tac toe or rock paper scissors

I Have A Long Distance Relationship, and How Can I Tell If He is Cheating On Me?

I've been dating the same boyfriend for 5 months, but he lives an hour flying time away from me, and we have never met, and sometimes i feel as if he is cheating on me, what can i do to tell if he is cheating on me?I Have A Long Distance Relationship, and How Can I Tell If He is Cheating On Me?
I was in this same situation a few months back. Let me guess...U met him online??


Ya honestly there isn't really a way 2 know if he is cheating on you. If he starts acting funny on the phone and not calling/txting u as much and doesn't have a reason why or doesn't see a problem with it then i'd say there's something going on...I Have A Long Distance Relationship, and How Can I Tell If He is Cheating On Me?
Hon, i'm in the same problem now as you and i really can't tell you if he is cheating, the only thing i can tell you is, confront him about it even if you have to overstep that line, if you do listen to what he says and how he says it, if your incorrect and he's not cheating on you, just tell him it's my felt cause i'm the one who told you to do it in the First place.
Well honey i'm guessing you're not very old here...





So the person above me is correct... Since you have never met you are more ';online friends';, versus boyfriend and girlfriend.





What you need to do is find someone local to date.... The fact that you have never met him tells me that you are just ';online fun'; to him. And you are taking this way too far...





Good luck
Ummm well if you never met him then obviously you aren't dating...


he prolly is cheating on you anyways theres no specific answer tho but im guessing he prolly is
If you've never met, then you're not really dating, and thus he's not cheating.
Uhhhhh, he's cheating on you.

How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?

I suspect my husband is cheating he is being very stinky lately. Like he don't like me getting on his computer and when he deletes something from his computer he makes sure its out of the recycle bin


and he used to call me when I am at work at night now he don't and when I call him he says hes busy. But when I go home in the morning nothing around the house is done.How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
You need to call him out on this behavior. He most likely is, or looking at porn a lot. If he gets defensive and denies it then you know he is cheating. Whatever he is doing, figure it out and make a decision whether to stay or leave. Its never good to be blind in your relationship.How do you know if your husband or Boyfriend is cheating?
You can either sneak around and find the information out for yourself, or you can talk to him and ask him to come clean if he is. Sometimes communication is the best way to go, it clears up a lot of insecurity issues between both parties.
I think you know he is. the question now is what are you going to do? Often we have an innate sense that lets us know and it tends to be right. If you truly are unsure, talking to him calmly should work. Asking why he deletes things if he has nothing to hide should help. communication is key--do not accuse just ask.
Look listen snoop, look for recites, watch mileage on car, restore the recycle bin, check history through your power desk, check phone in/out calls, check his cloths, when you find what you think you need talk to him.
Unless you catch him, you won't know.





My question is why do you want on his computer? Why do you want to see what's in the recycle bin? You must already suspect he is up to something or you wouldn't be getting nosy in the first place.
Try these


- Put a hidden cam at home


- Ask your most reliable friend to keep watch


- Give sudden visit home(say with your headache, you could not be in the office)


- See his bills / cash flow


- Ask him to join for dinner / lunch at your office
It definitely sounds suspicious. Get a program called cybersitter keyboard monitor. It operates secretly in the background and you can see what he is typing. I think he is up to no good.
Sit down and trash things out with him.


Let him know what's on your mind and


that you wish to work things out with him.


No point wasting time guessing.
Ask him.
If you're not a dumb person,


you'll find out someday.


Just do it discreetly.
Get a spying agent to spy on him.
well you know he is you got that feeling then that is what going on why else for a sudden change
Hire a P.I. to do your dirty work, that way you don't get caught up.

How would I tell my friend that she is cheating?

My friend is cheating on her husband. She ran off from her husband(abusive/domestic violence) and came with this guy to this country(where I'm also staying. I met her here). This guy now receives secret sms, which he never intends to show my friend. He deletes it as soon as he reads it.


Is he cheating on her? They are constantly fighting for this matter. I wanted to tell her, she is cheating her husband. But how would I put it in a more comfortable way?How would I tell my friend that she is cheating?
What makes it tough is the emotional ties you have with friend, knowing your friend is doing wrong in one way, yet knowing she's attempting to re-cover and find semblance of sanity in life of love, so it's tough. For both of you. You care. She wants to care. Different levels of seeing things.


If thinking you still know who your friend is--and she trusts you; which you'll have to gently find out by re-calling ol'times between you--as one given example--then listen to why she's doing it..You may cry as much as she will.


About the guy she's seeing, is he cheating on her---sounds likely--and how you know this means you're up pretty close to both of them, yes?


So you're deeply involved and want rectifying this mess before it buries all of you. You have a conscience.


Sometimes, as you know, friends have to go separate ways for a while, some friendships need much space/time/further experience to see what counts and what doesn't..You may need doing this unless you need your friend's emotional (and otherwise) support. And some friendship's never can return 'the way it was,' or not at all which may be a good thing, okay?


You've much deciding pending in your life, only wanting to make things better--at least for your friend and friendship between you, yes?


Tell her with caring love you have for her as a friend---showing that concern in a setting of both of you with time and away from pulic ears, perhaps a day's drive, a park setting, something where familiar ears aren't imposed by what you communicate.


Be her sister, because it seems you value your friendship, you seem having firm moral standards and a heart that can only hold so much before it begin screaming at you.


m.How would I tell my friend that she is cheating?
You need to stay out of it. It is not your job to be your friend's conscience. She's a big girl, and she'll figure things out on her own. If you get involved, she may not appreciate your intervention in her life and may wind up resenting you in the end.





You have good intentions, but remember: the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Signs are 99.9% that he is cheating. Ask her a very simple question: remember the Golden Rule: treat people the way you want to be treated. Why would you want to cheat on someone but you don't want to be cheated on?
There are some things which we should never get involved with in our friendships without them specifically asking our views.





Their marriage


Their business


Their religion





To step into any of these areas without an invitation is to tread where angels fear to go.
I don't understand, which is the one who is cheating? Why would you have to let someone know they are cheating? Wouldn't they already be aware of that? I'm confused.
M.Y.O.B. But be there if your friend needs you.
I agree with Thomas.
ya she is cheating.....

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How do I work out 'cheating issues' with my ex?

So I confessed to my 'now ex girlfriend' that I cheated on her a month ago. We are still friends now and talk everyday, but every now and then, she breaks down or gets angry and brings up my past, questions about me cheating...I really love her, so how should I deal with this when she brings it up?How do I work out 'cheating issues' with my ex?
She may never get over what u did, once u break that TRUST in a relationship, u have NOTHING, at the same time, I dont think it is fair she keeps bringing up the past.





Leave the past alone, if all it is going to do is cuz more heartache. this u should suggest to her.





Give it time, she needs to heal her broken heart. You are lucky she is still even your friend.





Take care,


ROCK ANGELHow do I work out 'cheating issues' with my ex?
Well...maybe some time apart with no communication would help. Of course, it wasn't fair for you to cheat, but by the same token, it is not fair for you to have to answer questions about it everyday. The only thing that is going to heal this situation is time and patience, that's if it is worth saving!
Simple, Don't cheat again, even if a sexy lady is standing butt naked in your doorway begging you to...





I'll leave the rest to your imagination.